My Boyfriend Won’t Apologize But He Says He Loves Me
Good morning Jzhane.
I am Jane (not real name).My boy friend or fiance removed all my photos,packed my clothes in the bags and actually he kept every thing which belongs to me in the bag and and he brought another girl in the house and on my bed for a week when I wasn’t there.
I found every thing packed in the bag when I returned .I called him I asked him where a my photos.he told me that he took them some to repair yet the photos were under the chair .
After seeing that, I asked my neighbor. She told me that he bought another girl for week. Jzhane, I asked the guy and he denied but he told his friend that its true that he brought a woman but he is not going to apologize.
Yes…He even called me telling me that he still love me but not even to say sorry to me..He is saying its his brother who brought a girl in the house so he is not going to apologize for something he didn’t do it.
I tried to talk to him but he doesn’t want to talk about that .Jzhane, this guy wasted my time and years and his family are calling me asking me about our first visit.I told them to ask their son.
Another problem is…he is the one paying for the apartment I live in…if I break up with him….what do I do? Will I leave the apartment? He just sent a message that he is coming tomorrow and that we need to talk face to face.
We have come very far in this relationship .I don’t know what to do? Madam advise me .his family knows me and were planing to do our first visit this year in November and another question is guy really love me. Is this guy really love or is wasting my time?
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Some times we see the red lights but we convince selves it’s the green one when something has too drama n doubt surrounding it that’s a problem right there love isn’t complicated it’s straight pure n has no fear so think twice if u want to gamble with ur life peace and happiness cos u want to be married getting married n staying married r two different things so think again rushing is also a bad sign take ur time
It really shows the guy doesn’t luv and respect you at all because you depend on him.. you will never enjoy the marriage if eventually you guys get marry…He paid for the house rent that why he thinks he has the right to bring anyone in..These are big red flag better run now without looking back and also get to responsible for your needs without any man helps..Add value to your life.. End it now better be single and happy than engaged or married and be unhappy.
Not fair at all. Be wise young lady. A man brought a lady to his house and removed your pictures , then refused to appologize to you .
Hmmmmm, use your head.
Please go get a job and pay your rent by yourself. Forget about this guy and move on with your life cos he doesn’t have any atom of love and respect for you.
Hello dear,
I think you already know what to do: if your guts tell you he is cheating…he probably is.
How will he explain why he hid your stuff?
Two options you got:
Option 1: Stay and try to catch him with real life evidence. You can pretend to have forgotten…then travel sometime and then visit unexpectedly…perhaps you would discover the truth then( this option is too much drama though….if you have the strength for it…its up to you)
Option 2: Do not concern yourself with B.S…get out of his apartment and find yourself a better man who deserves you and will not share you with another woman or lie to you or refuse to apologize for his wrongs.
All the best