Where Are All The Good Men-I Keep Meeting Wrong Men: Please Advise.
Good morning ma,
I have a situation that l need you to post in the group please withhold my ID. Kindly post for me in the group and withhold my ID.
I am a lady aged 26 God fearing and hardworking people of God l would like you to help me with a battling situation that am in right now l don’t know what to do. I have really failed to have a stable relationship.
l never dated from high school to tertiary education l always saw men as a distraction to my life and career so l told myself to work hard and finish school so that l can depend on no man but myself and God.
But now am grown and l still can’t find a single man to date me, a certain guy had approach me but l turned him off because of s*x .l don’t believe in s*x before marriage.
People of God whenever a man approach me, l would just think of ways and means to get ride of him, currently there is a man who wants to date me we have been friends for a while now but he has a girlfriend though he told me he wants to break up with her.
What can l do l know for a fact am not to be blamed for there break up but my conscious is killing me l don’t want to be the reason another woman cries.
I have kept myself for a longtime why should l find myself falling in love with a man who is in a relationship? family please help me what would you do if you were in my shoes.
My friends are saying l will never find a single guy and moreover the guy in question is not married why would l think am breaking another woman’s home am confused should l let go this guy.?
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There are Still Good men and SUPER SINGLE ONES. Don’t let people’s wrong opinion keep you Stuck in a wrong place.
1. If that your friend breaks up with his girlfriend, don’t date him. What is the guarantee that he wont break up with you when he sees another babe he likes while he is still with you?? A word of advice.. Or maybe he is doing it cos of pity., (Just saying though).
2. I know Women are always in that pressured stage for relationship and marriage and all but please, do not be under pressure to find a man, that is one reason why you keep meeting the wrong ones. I know i am not a woman but please, Focus more on other things, Keep Building and growing. He will find you.
Lastly, S.e.x doesn’t define a relationship. Look Good, Pray, Have faith, Grow. He will come for you.
DO NOT BE PRESSURED.
Take it easy my sister.Dont get entangled in another woman’s relationship. Find a man who is free and ready to commit to you and only you. Why is he leaving the other lady. Wot he do the same to you one day. I am here too. God fearing but have failed to get a lady to marry. May be we could connect , date and let God mold our future. What d you think.? My WhatsApp no is +256858853011
Reach me on +260 975 064 040 whatsap
First my lady get rid of that impression in ur heart that men are distraction and to some as blessing from God ,then creat room for entertainment and welcoming for them ,share time with them ,but while u that 3 major character u must look or worshout for ,ones that smokes, drinks and club ,then 3 major attitude,ones that jst seemlessly want to be nice ,fun and gifting to u,find the reason behind all these thing ,for a guy who is relationship and told u he wants to break ,the is he breaking cos of u but if ask him y he gonna cook up some nice story for u ,always question every gift they give always want to know y they give u the gift ,and moreover the man that loves won’t ask for S.e.x nor even put u in a position that make u vulnerable to it ,and above all guide ur heart with the word of God it will help u thank u
Hello dear,
First of…you need to get this into your head…there are good men out there and one will find you…you just have to pray and wait for it.
This dude who wants to break up with his girl for you….can break up with you for another girl…either as a girlfriend or wife…so do not let him cause pain to another lady …just to be with you…life is you reap whatever you sow.
You are young, smart …beautiful and any man should be very happy to make you an honorable woman.
You just have to choose wisely…get involved in decent social life…learn emotional intelligence skills…interpersonal skills…meet people…travel…have fun…join purposeful groups…be friends with people who share same values in life…
And you will fine your prince charming…maybe not even the way you have been expecting…but he will come…cos God loves you and He will give you nothing but the best if only you can trust him.
God bless
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