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I’m 31 years of age and it’s been 9 years staying with my husband in marriage, and i have never received any happiness in this marriage.I tried everything that a woman can do to her husband to make him happy but no effort this man is a lion in the house.
My husband only touches(s*x)me once in every 3 months.And I ended getting his kiss after 2 years in marriage but now dololo, but still I’m busy doing everything to make him happy.
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We have 2 girls and we tried to go to counselling but still no effort so please give me advices.🙏🙏
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Was he this way before you married? How was your courtship? He might be gay.
Communicate with him and tell him how you feel and what you want. You can write it in a note if you don’t want to confront him.
Good afternoon ma’am
You have come thus far to give up.
And I pray that God will continue to strengthen you. You have done your best to change him in the ways that you can but to no avail.
What’s left for you now is to hand him over to God to mend him and prune him to the husband that you want to see through prayers. For effective prayer of the righteous availeth much. Invite God into your Home and let him fix it . From you own End be happy, rejoice and trust God to do what only him can do.
God bless
I think the problem is the foundation. Are you guys born again? Did you have s*x before marriage?
I’m still trying to understand how you ended upal marrying this man and staying like this up to 9yrs… Wow… I’m pretty sure you saw the handwriting on the wall before you got married and ignored it… Well, salvaging this situation will be to sit him down and ask him exactly what he wants… You can also write it as a note and drop if u feel you cannot confront him… Seek Godly counsel also. God will direct you…
Was he always like this before you got married? If no, when did he start changing? Maybe you ignored the red flags you saw about him but married him still thinking your love will change him? Dunno. Too many questions needing answers. The way it is now try getting a family member or someone he respects involved who will try to find out why he’s behaving like that then if ignore him if that fails and focus on your children and happiness. Keep praying and be positive.
Was he always like this before you got married? If no, when did he start changing? Maybe you ignored the red flags you saw about him but married him still thinking your love will change him? Dunno. Too many questions needing answers. The way it is now try getting a family member or someone he respects involved who will try to find out why he’s behaving like that then if ignore him if that fails and focus on your children and happiness. Keep praying and be positive.
All you need now my dear they love it is not too late another for you to break out the marriage it is only for you to pray and ask God to intervene no matter how hard in the heart of your husband is God can melt it believe that God can do it for you only prayer can solve that no matter how long it takes you have endured for years now and you for a period of time in prayers with prayers God can bring happiness into your family so go to God in prayer and go to men of god for serious cancel there is no problem or nothing go wrong with your marriage is just like of understanding with your husband have not got so go to God in prayer and ask God for divine Wisdom and ask God for love to break into his hard letting him know God break his heart with love and ask God from for Happiness from above to come into your family and you will see the hand of God in your family god bless you
The answer is simple, I believe you should sit your husband down and have a heart to heart conversation with him. He will tell you what the issue is. Pick the problem(s) and prayerfully find solution(s) to it, you’ll get your husband back.
Sorry about what you are going through madam, there are alot of things you are not telling us here,
– have you ever study him to know what the problem is all about?
– Was he like this before you married him?
– Did you notice if he’s having an affair?
– Have you also check your dressing, food etc.
To be sincere with you, a normal man can’t stay with his wife in the house without s*x in 2 to 3weeks.
Sit your husband down and you guys need to discuss heart to heart.
Just tell us the whole story for better advice.
Stay blessed.
For me, I think it has to do with your hygiene, how neat and accommodating are u, how do u dress both in and outside d house, how do u dress ur kids, is d house always neat? So many qstns u should ask urself. It’s well with u ma’am
Not exactly
How I wish you could explain further on how your marriage is going. You said u have never experienced happiness in your marriage before. Is it only in terms of s*x?
What about other responsibilities in terms of finance etc or;
is there any form of abuse in which he insulted your family and ur generations or;
has he ever raised his hands on you before?
Maybe you should write another post and elaborate more on all the things he has been been doing that has been making you feel unhappy in the marriage.
If it’s about s*x, then have a discussion with him about it and know his reasons for ignoring you for months like that. Was he like that before getting married to you? If he wasn’t, then maybe the problem was caused by you. But if he was, then you entered a relationship with the wrong partner right from start. You will never know what’s wrong until you ask for the answers from him.
It is well !!!
Hello madam,
Have you tried to have a heart to heart discussion with him? Can he tell you what is wrong? Is he upset with you about something?
Because clearly,something is wrong. Its either he is no longer in love with you and he does not know how to tell you or he is troubled by something he cant tell you or he has another woman in the picture.
It could also be about hygiene. If you do not appear hygienic or attractive to him,that may be pushing him away.
Encourage him to speak honestly with you. Just in case,its something about you did that is pushing him away.If he agrees,you both can see another counselor to get a second opinion on how to deal with the issues that maybe bothering him.
Pray about this. Ask God to speak to his heart and turn his heart towards you.
Do not give up. Try all of the above and Trust God for a miracle.
In the mean time…try to live your life and be happy irrespective of him. Get busy. Find things to do to make you happy. Do not go around with a gloomy face. Work on yourself. Empower yourself. Take care of yourself.
Love yourself and pray for the best.
God bless you.
You guys need to have a heart to heart talk to know the real cause of the problem… Do that then come back and tell us the development