True Life Story: Help-My Late Mother’s Spirit Manipulating My Love Life

True Life Story: Help-My Late Mother’s Spirit Manipulating My Love Life

Hi Lively Stones,

Do you believe that the dead can speak to the living? My ex and my late mother may be conspiring against me. Yes, I feel like my late mother’s spirit is trying to Manipulate my love life. For the four years that I dated my ex, I felt she was not appreciative of what I did for her. We met in church when she was in her final year. We started dating after a year that I noticed her in the choir. She always says she loves me but I feel I was the one that was more in love. I think she used me to finance her final year and eventually, she was still using me as her ATM after she graduated and could not immediately find a job.

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When she eventually found a job, her true colors began to show. She started ghosting me and neglecting me. The fourth year turned into a toxic relationship so we eventually broke up. Everyone including my mother tried to reconcile her but not long after that, I heard she was dating a married man. My mother was fond of my ex because she really took my mother like hers even though she is a very materialistic girl. I then decided to focus on my future with another woman. I was introduced to my fiancé a very nice and simple lady. We got engaged just five months after dating. We have done marriage introduction. We are planning to wed in August.

Then I suddenly lost my mother two months ago. My ex reached out to me cos she and my mother were close. I thought she was reaching out to comfort me cos she really tried during the burial which took place last month. She was around on the day of the burial which was a very sad and emotional day for me. My fiancé was also around but she was very busy with my other siblings and relatives that day with the preparations.

After the burial, my ex advised that I go stay in a hotel to rest instead of staying at the family house where there were endless people coming and going. I agreed and she booked the hotel for me. I never saw anything suspicious in her kindness because she was now married to that married man as a second wife. After I checked into the hotel, my ex came to bring me food…I was feeling down when it hit me that I had buried my mum…I was vulnerable and my ex started hugging and kissing me.

One thing led to another, we had s3x. We both regretted it immediately after and made a promise not to keep it a secret because she is married and I have a fiancée. After that day, I never saw her again but a week later, she started texting me that she misses me and regrets breaking up with me. I told her it was now too late.  She has been sexting me and feelings are beginning to come back for between us. Like I said, the first time was because I was feeling down, I have now blocked her cos I don’t want to encourage her further with thoughts of hooking up with her.

The problem now is, my ex messaged me on Facebook that she is pregnant and she is not sure if its mine or her husband’s because its exactly six weeks ago that we both slept with each other…..I am freaking out because I don’t know what to do. I have ignored her message but I have not been able to rest since? What if the baby is mine? Will I allow another man father my child? Should I ask her for a DNA after the baby is born?

After the baby is born…I will be married by then…how will I explain to my wife that I fathered a child with my ex…I am thinking of telling my ex to abort it but what if she disagrees? She already says she is hoping the baby is mine so she can have a piece of me with her to always remind her of our love. She said she feels I am the father because she dreamt of my mother crying to her to give her a grandchild because they were very close when my mother was alive.

Facts, before we broke up, my mother used to ask my ex when she was going to give her a grandchild. Now, she says my mom keeps appearing to her that she is happy now…and that the baby is mine. I am f#cking confused….I admit I made a mistake but I do not want this mistake to determine how I live the rest of my life.  Now, which one is this dream about my mother? Is she telling the truth or is my ex messing with my head?

Why is it that its on the same day my mother was buried, that I slept with my ex and now she is pregnant….is my late mother trying to pass me a message? These thoughts are just overwhelming me. I do not want to believe what my ex is saying but I wish this never happened. I swear I never thought of her after we broke up. I never planned to have s3x with her. It was just a one moment of weakness…the worst moment of my life….

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Now, I have to decide if this was just all a mistake or my late mother is truly trying to tell me something and what am I going to do about this? I love my fiancée…I do not want to break her heart…but this pregnancy…happening on the day of my mom’s burial plus this dream of my ex….please what do I do?

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