“I’m In Trouble. My Husband Wants To Leave Me Because We Don’t Have A Boy.” – Distraught Nigerian Lady Cries Out
An online trending story reports that a Nigerian lady has taken to her social media page to share her marital dilemma in her bid to find a solution to her failing marriage.
According to the lady, her husband wanted a boy-child, she could only give him a girl…then the husband became distant and after a while, his distance led her into the arms of another man (an old friend). The real problem now is that she is pregnant for the other man and she does not know what to do.
Read her ordeal below ;
I’m in trouble. My husband wants to leave me because we don’t have a boy. Yes he’s Igbo fyi
I am in a fix at the moment. I don’t no what to do. I’m an Edo lady who married an Igbo man. Yes , he’s Igbo but I love him so much. We have been married for 5 years now and dated for 2 years. I aborted 2 times when we were dating. He said he wasn’t ready then. We have 2 daughters currently, when my husband sees it’s a girl he leave the hospital in anger and goes to drink with his friends, he doesn’t come home. His mom and dad and sisters don’t even come to visit nor send a name or show interest in child naming ceremony, because they expect a boy. From the hospital like this I hear them speak their language, I don’t understand much. I can tell they are disappointed in me. My family do support me well. I have been on google its not my fault I swear. It’s the last seeds from what I read. After a while My husband once made me abort the last baby at 11 weeks, we were in the us. I cried and cried. I love him so much and he takes good care of me. Because it was a girl. TCTLSS…. in fear of God fear of love.
My current issue
My husband has been so distant from me. I decided to have an affair with an old friend of mine who was around me. I was going through a lot then, I was so big due to my weight and all. my body was not the same at all. I cried and cried, We started having s&x. I later found out I was pregnant I knew the Child was for him not my husband, but I decided to make love to my husband and make sure he cum in me. My issue now is this , I am 13 weeks now and I check the gender and it’s a boy. I don’t know if I should be happy , because now that I have a boy my husband will love me and cherish me. But I feel like I betrayed him. So many thoughts going on in my mind. I don’t know what to do.
Anonymous
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Madam,huh! This is not gonna be easy oooo,think twice.
Madam you have female children because your husband gave you X chromosome.
If he had given you a Y chromosome then you would have had a male child.
Don’t beat yourself up about this, ignore the family for they are acting in ignorance.
I wish you had put it back to him before you got pregnant for another man.
Most Igbo people admit a child borne to them while still married to their wives even if the child was borne out of adultery.
Life is too beautiful to start worrying about the gender of a child because children are blessings from God.
So accept your mistake and move on with life.
Love your children and don’t let anyone make you feel bad that it’s your fault you don’t have male children, it’s actually your husband’s fault.
God bless you.
Honestly, I feel for you but i will still be honest with you, why exactly do people commit adultery, you can’t blame your husband for it, my dear sister, I put it to you that you know who that child, you know. You better come clean now that its early. GOD bless you.
…is your buddy aware that u are pregnant for him? If yes,what is the agreement then?
…u committed already, so let the truth come out and face life alone. If he will accept that fact that it was his fault and father the child then so be it but it not, embrace it a lone as beautiful as it is.
My opinion