Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook?
I observe my girl friend is very stingy and selfish. I really don’t need anything from her, I foot our bills from A – Z, I give her between 1500 to 5k as tfare, meanwhile the actual tfare from my place to hers is just 200 to and fro.
Ok the problem is some weeks ago she was at my place for some days, the 2nd day in the morning I realized my toothpaste has finished, having it in mind that I’m gonna buy another one on my way back later in the day, unfortunately I forgot to buy it despite buying stuff at the supermarket. But God so good as I was blaming myself for forgetting to buy it, she told me she has toothpaste in her bag so we used her toothpaste that morning. I kept forgetting to buy this toothpaste for the next 3 days, I had to cut the tube with knife so I can have something to brush my teeth but my girlfriend was quietly using her toothpaste alone and she will return it into her bag, she saw me tearing the tube but didnt occur to her to surrender her toothpaste until i bought mine the 5th day.
I really didn’t count it initially but I have noticed other things and it’s taking my mind back to the incidence. My girlfriend has never used her money to buy me a sachet of pure water or cheapest orange or whatever.
Another funny thing is when we are eating, sometimes she accused me of eating from her meat or taking from her drinks when i didn’t even touch it. Imagine always trying to lay claim to 3 pieces out of 4.
Do I need to pay attention to some of the little details or overlook all because of love or am I overreacting?
NB : she’s presently unemployed but never lack support from her parents and myself.
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It is totally wrong for you to allow her spend some days in your house in the first place. These are petty attitude but meanwhile they could mean a whole lot when time comes,probably in future. Now ,you have to sit her down and correct such attitude since they are things of concern to you,let her see reasons why she needs to change. I don’t know how much you love her,but if you really do love her and want to marry her please start talking now.
It’s good thing you have being observing her and if you truly love her then start making that corrections now, Don’t make the mistake of she will change after marriage that’s a time bomb in the making, correct what ever you can’t take now from her before thinking ,
Note : relationship is a ground of observation and correction, and mostly be prayerful about your relationship with her let God guide you
I think you should talk to her about it.
Why should your girlfriend be spending days at your place, what is wrong with this generation. I’m guessing you guys are having S.e.x, her tee fare to your place is #200, but you give her 1.5k or 5k sometimes, when will some guys grow up and mature, yet you said her parents also send her money, I ask you when did it become a guy’s duty to take care of his girlfriend, many of us guys are the cause of ladies entitlement mentality. My Man, grow up and act mature. GOD bless you.
Sit her down and talk some senses into her and watch out for changes in her. What you cannot change now cannot be changed in marriage be guided. And please let her stop sleeping over at your place is morally wrong. Wish you all the best…..
She knows what she’s doing. Such people cannot help u in your time of need. How can you be in a relationship for months and not even a sachet water for someone you claim to love. Love is sacrifice you too have to make sacrifices. Giving is paramount