My Husband Has Suddenly Abandoned Me & My Children- Please Advise Me
Good evening ,
Please post and hide my identity for me. I am married with 3 kids. I and my hubby were leaving happily until last year December everything about him changed. He started keeping late nights, most times he does not come home until three days or more.
I told his elder sis and mum but they did nothing about it. Then I decided to keep a watch on my hubby and I noticed that he has been going out with another lady but I haven’t caught him in the act.
He locked up the shop he opened for me and stopped taking care of us, because I reported him to his people about his new behavior but his mum warned me never to call her line. My husband said to me that he married me out of mercy.
He now comes home once in a week and leaving without money for us, am dying in pains, my account is empty, my kids are dying of hunger. I can’t go back to my family because they never liked him because he was an only son with many sisters (7)who are all older than him but 2 are married and 5 unmarried and they are in support of what his doing.
My husband is 40 and am 31 with two girls and 1 boy. I am always neat but my husband’s reason was that he regretted ever marrying me. I need prayers because this is not the man I married. He has changed alot. I have checked myself ,I have not done anything to him and I have also asked him for forgiveness if I have offended him in any way.
Please I really need advice on what to do because right now no single food at home and I am thinking of breaking the key of the shop or take my kids to his mother and start a new life because am really suffering with my kids and no one to help me start a new business.
Please advise me.
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Report him to child welfare authorities. If he is not interested in the marriage at the least he must take care of the children. In the mean time solicit help from your family members, friends and other charitable organizations around your city. Don’t keep quiet and be dying inside.
You need to tell your family what’s going on. Also pray for him,he may be under a bad Influence. Then report to the welfare authorities.
hello madam,
Please reach out to your family members for help. I do not know why he is behaving this way but you need to start looking out for yourself and your children.
Pray for him but do not bother him anymore. I know its tough but you are going to have to be strong…at least…for the sake of your children. You can and must survive this.
Do not give up….