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Our Affair Made Her Happy Again & I Am Fighting For Her Happiness

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Hide my ID please. Two years ago, our department got a new Manager.A very beautiful woman in her late 30s. She is very attractive but she is married. I try my best to be very respectful but I notice this lady has been very mean to me.

Well,not to me alone,she is quick tempered and mean to everyone in the department so everyone just tries to avoid her when she is in that mood. Working with her has not been easy but since she is our boss,everyone just tries to stay out of her way.

Last year,for the first time,I was appraised so poorly by her. This is the first time I have been so poorly acknowledged in the company I have worked in for 7 years. I was not going to accept this.

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So I went to her office to explain to her that she was wrong in my assessment. She shouted at me to get out of her office. Maybe her plan was to intimidate me into silence but I was not ready to be humiliated. I  shouted back at her. At that point,I did not care if I was going to be fired.

In my anger,I told her the story of her life. How everyone hates her and calls her mean behind her back. I stormed out of her office and waited for the worse to happen. She didn’t say or do anything but sent me an sms to see her before I left for the day. In my mind,I was ready for her to fire me…and then I would sue her….all kinds of crazy angry thoughts going through my mind.

Some minutes to 5pm,I went to her office. She told me to wait as she was still busy. I waited in the office adjoining to hers for almost 6.30pm before she called me in. I was shaking,thinking I was getting fired. When I saw her,she asked me to sit down and went ahead to apologize to me for her behavior.

I was now very shocked. My very mean boss apologizing? That was not expected. She went ahead to explain that she did not mean to assess me so badly. Right there,she re-did my appraisal and assessed me so high that I could not believe it was happening.

She explained that she is always under so much pressure from home and work and its hard on her. I apologized to her and she said she hopes we can be better colleagues after that. And yes,from that day,things changed. She started being nice to me,even other colleagues were surprised.

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I found out that she was actually a very nice lady but she was passing through a hard time in her marriage. That made her very fussy at work. I felt sorry for her and tried to be her friend,just to support her with anything she needed. Sometimes,she would ask me to wait after work,she would drop me off so we can chat on our way home.

One day,she told me how bad her husband was treating her,to the extent that she was thinking of leaving her marriage. She started to cry and I was feeling so sorry for her,I reached out to her,held her and the next thing,she kissed me. I did not want to push her away.

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This woman is so pretty and I wonder why any man would treat her badly. We kissed and she pulled away saying she was sorry. I told her I was not sorry. And that was how we started having an affair. Please do not judge me…I did not plan to get involved with a married woman…but it felt so right….she was a terrible person before…

Things changed after we met…it was meant to be…we we meant to find each other to help her be a better and happier person.It was so hard to hide our feelings. We had to start going to a hotel after work everyday.

She became less mean to everyone. People noticed how nice sh became. Obviously,she was getting well f*cked everyday and that was making her happy. I was happy but also scared because I knew I was wrong for sleeping with a married woman. But I was making her happy and I was happy ….it seemed right.

Well…until her husband started suspecting. He was surprised she was no longer moody and sad. Her glow was obvious. He started trying to be a better husband. And was doing everything to win her back. It became hard for her to continue cheating with me.

We both knew it was time to break up. It was very hard cos we were both very much in love. We tried but its not easy. She begged me to….

To be continued…

 

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Jzhane
Jzhane
A passionate people and godly relationship advocate!...Trained Psychologist and Human Resources Practioner. A seasoned Marriage and relationship counsellor. A mother, wife, sister, friend and daughter. J

8 COMMENTS

  1. I m not judging you because the husband create a loophole for this action but I hope it didn’t end in deadly way for you and your mistress,I really feel sorry for the woman

  2. My advice for the Man working with her in office is to try and explain to the woman that is not her fault doing that to her, but just because of what happen in her marriage… So the best thing for the guy is that he should leave the office and find another place to work…

  3. Hah please let her go there is more to what she is saying how can her husband start loving her when he start seeing that glow in her face. My brother check well oooo

  4. So her husband needed someone to make his wife glow again, before could amend their marriage? Mstcheeeew… Sometimes men don’t put themselves in their partners shoes… What happened to making his wife happy
    So that d homefront can be happy and peaceful… Am a bit upset with this post.

  5. You are sleeping with a married woman and you say it seems right, you even said it made both of you happy, bro you can kill a man to take over his wife, its not you business to make her happy, why will you get to the extent of sleeping with her. Your greed and covetousness led you to it I’m sure if your wife does same you divorce her. Many of us get emotional to the point of doing rubbish. I TERRIBLY sorry for you man. Your sin is a great. You know the right thing to do and wrong thing not to do so I won’t advise you at all.

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