True Life Story: My Wife & My Ex Girlfriend Are Now Best Friends-Pls Advise
Hi Lively Stones,
Please make this one anonymous. There is fire on the mountain. Its like karma wants to finally catch up with me. I am almost 40 years ago, since I got married to my wife for about six years, my marriage has been peaceful but its like the sins of my past are about to catch up with me and rock my marriage if care is not taken. I met my wife Merilin (not real name) about seven years ago, she’s an only child of her wealthy oil magnet parents, I did some business with her her dad before I fell for her and it took her dad almost six months to agree to let me marry his daughter cos he is very protective of her.
My wife told me that her dad always suspected men who were coming for her as wanting to marry her cos of her father’s wealth. My wife is pretty with brains and it’s taking me years to become fully trusted in the family business. Before I met my wife, I lived a very rough lifestyle. I thought I was living my dream as a young man, I was making money and just having fun. I was not even looking into marriage cos I wanted to have fun to the fullest. I am not proud of some of the things I did then…but at that time…I was just living in the fast lane without a care.
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I met Bibianna at that stage of my life. She too was living the baby girl lifestyle….she was not my only girlfriend but she was my favorite s3x partner cos she was the dopest. We did all kinds of dirty: s3x, threesomes, getting high and partying wild. Even when one of her Sugar daddy eventually married her as a third wife, we were still f*cking secretly. The girl dey make guy forget manners. Not surprised one rich fool made her wife, gave her all the good things in life cos she is a freak that never gets tired of pleasing her man.
Well, after a while, I lost touch with Bibs (short form of Bibianna). I heard her husband relocated her to Canada or somewhere abroad. Me, I met my wife two years later and here we are today. We live in one of the most luxurious estate community in Banana Island. There is a mansion that was just recently developed close to our property. It was also recently purchased. Rumor has it that the owner paid N6B for the property. So, when the occupants moved in, it shocked me to my bones when my wife excitedly came to tell me that our new neighbors is one of her dad’s friend.
That the Chief bought it for his youngest wife who just came back abroad with her two young children. My wife planned a welcome to the neighborhood party for the new elite neighbor of ours who showed up and turned out to be Bibs. You guessed right…yes, my Bibs, my best f*ck partner. She had come back to Nigeria and her husband bought her the house close to ours. And because her husband is friends with my father in-law…my wife is becoming very close to her, to be friends with her.
I am a dead man. The day Bibs walked into our house and saw me, I knew wahala has come. She looked at me and smiled. When we hugged…I remembered her scent and my junior started misbehaving. I wanted to run out of the room so fast cos I was now sweating. The get together was not funny at all. I could not look at Bibs face cos I knew she would sense I was struggling with a hard on. We both pretended not to know each other. But soon as they left….Bibs sent me this message….”the best surprise of my day, baby …see you soon…so excited.”
Man, I had to call her the next day, when she picked, her laughter alone almost sent me to hell fire….memories started flooding back. I began to beg her to forget our past together cos things have changed… I love my wife and she is not the type of woman any man can cheat on cos her father will lock me up in jail and throw the keys into third mainland bridge. Bibs was like, ah ..that I should relax…that I need not be afraid that she too she is married and she will not want to jeopardize her marriage so we should just be friends. I said ok.
So for the past several months, I watched as Bibs and my wife became closer and closer…They became BBFs…my wife used to be shy and prude but she became friendly to Bibs. Their girl chat became something else….they talked to the extent that Bibs started teaching my wife some s3x tricks that my wife started trying with me…my wife was like…ah…this Bibs sabi wella…Bibs said this….Bibs said that….etc…she taught my wife about squirting…and squirting is something that drives me crazy. I became more and more worried. I had to call Bibs…like what is her end game…what is she trying to do to my wife ,..is she trying to seduce me through my wife….
I think she is trying to seduce me because…as my wife talked more about Bibs…the more hornier I got…Bibs said she likes my wife and that since my wife is a prude, so she is trying to teach her for me cos she know what I like…that I like a bad girl with ashawo vives. I was like, please don’t teach her…leave her alone. Bibs was like I should relax, that no one will find out about us. Then one day, out of the blues, Bibs sends me a nude of herself pleasuring herself….she didn’t show her face of course….and she sent a text later….saying her old husband cannot make her scream like she used to do with me…
I blocked Bibs immediately because that picture gave me such a hard on, I had to masturbate to release. When Bibs saw she could no longer reach me on the phone…she started coming to visit my wife more often. I would get home and see both of them gisting into the late night. When she wants to leave…Bibs will pretend to want to use our toilet….she would sneak into wherever I am….and just flash her boobs or any private part. I see this woman wants to k*ll me.
Bibs has done this several times when my wife isn’t looking and I don’t know how much more I can hang on. Its giving me serious cause for worry but I have been fighting hard cos my life depends on this….I cannot loose my wife and family over this Jezebel. And so far, its been hard but I have managed to keep myself together. Women have to be very careful the friends they bring close to their homes. You have no idea what that friend wants to do with your husband.
Like I said….I have been managing to hold fast but something happened recently…I noticed during s3x…my wife was using all Bibs tricks…I just smiled…as I closed my eyes…even tough I knew I was with my wife….all I could picture was Bibs…it felt so real…that when I released…I called Bibianna…her name slipped out of my mouth. I wanted the bed to swallow me…I thought my wife was going to k*ll me. But when I opened my eyes…my wife was smiling….she was like….”are you fantasizing about Bibianna cos of all the wild tricks she has taught me”?
I had to quickly look for a strategic lie, so I said….”babe…stop associating with Bibianna…I think she is corrupting you….you are becoming too corrupt with s3x…I want my innocent wife back”….I dont know what happened the next few seconds but my wife started kissing me and said ”Babe….let’s spice up our s3x life please. Bibianna has taught me so much, I didn’t realize how much I didn’t know before”….So I said ok, I am ok to spice up or s3x life.
Few weeks later, my wife started asking me if I ever fantasized having a thresome with anyone. WTF!!! I knew its game over…Bibianna has won!. If she has succeeded in convincing my wife to think about thresome, it means, she has already slept with my wife and she wants to come inside our bed, not just for my wife….but for me….and if I make that mistake….my marriage will be doomed…my wife will be hurt cos…with Bibianna…she is a master arts craft at this. In a thr*esome with Bibs…she will control the whole process…the other party ends up feeling left out and they eventually loose out.
This is purely Bibs signature…she wants to push my wife out….cos if we ever get down to a threesome….my wife will know that this girl is without mercy….she will f*ck my brains out until I won’t want my wife anymore. Ladies and gentlemen…I have spent the last few weeks convincing my wife that this threesome is a bad idea….that its devilish…its a sin…my wife says when did I become a serious Christiaan, that its her new fantasy now.
I asked my wife if she had slept with Bibs…she said no…but I knew she was lying because a few days later, my wife asked me again, if I have thought about what she said about having a threesome….I pretended to be shocked and angry at her for even bringing that up. That as a married woman, for bringing the thought to her husband is wrong. I asked her what if the other woman is trying to snatch her husband from her? My wife said women like Bibs will never leave their rich old husbands, that they just want to have fun cos the old man can’t do her well.
My wife talked about many couples that are known into open marriage. My wife grew up abroad and I think that is why she does not think there is anything wrong with Open marriage. Yes, we know people who are just with their partners just for the money, they engage in alot of extra marital affairs cos their partners are into it as well. The wealthy people live like this. Some rich men are gays…some of their wives are lesbians or bis3xuals. The rich people here get away with so many things but my father in-law is the problem. He made it clear that he will not condone any scandal to his only child. This only child is now the one playing with fire. I told my wife to stay away from Bibs, that I am not interested…so My wife apologized and said its over.
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In recent times, I am very convinced Bibs is doing my wife…cos now, I notice my wife goes over to Bibs place more often….saying Bibs is lonely cos her husband is not always around. I don’t need further evidence. Bibs signature is all over this one….she has done this before…when we were together years ago, she convinced a married woman to sleep with her while she was sleeping with the married man. The man eventually left his wife for Bibs.
How am I going to warn my wife what Bibs’ agenda is? Should I confess my past with Bibs to my wife? Will that help her understand the danger that Bibs is to our marriage? Have you ever seen a man running from s3x with a nymphomaniac? That is my situation right now…Bibs can turn you into a nympho. Just like she is corrupting my wife now…my wife is becoming a nymph without realizing it….any other woman, maybe I would have accepted the invitation but I know bibs…she is set to devour…evil communication really corrupt good manners…
Why is my wife not getting it…please advise me…what do I do to solve this problem before its too late? Its becoming harder to pretend that nothing is going on. Spoke to a friend about it, he was just laughing and calling me weak, that I should jump at the offer from my wife and Bibs….that my father in-law cant do anything if its my wife that suggested the thresome idea. But my fear is not just about a thresome but Bibs…she will hurt my wife…that is her goal…
A thought came to me: should I threaten to tell Bibs’ husband? But will that not lead to exposing myself or my wife in the process? What else can I do? should I confess to my wife, after all…Bibs was an ex…maybe then she will realize that Bibs is actually trying to deceive her, to be friends with her, in order to get to me…should I confess?
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