True Life Story: Please Help Me Judge, Is My Fiancee A Wife Material Or Not
I’m a young hard work guy who’s planning to settle down someday. I have a girlfriend whom I have gone to see her family with my own family , as in, we have done our introduction, what was remaining was for us to fix a date for our wedding.
But this girl started showing some nasty attitude. There was a day she came to spend weekend with me and I gave her some money to buy some food stuffs to cook, that day i received the greatest shocked of my life , my fiancée warmed me never to send her message like that again that she is not my slave.
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As if that was not enough. Another day she came to spend some days with me but when she got to my house I was not at home that day. She went to the bathroom to get some shower but unfortunately there was no water running in the bathroom because we didn’t had light for 2days so we couldn’t pump water. Normally when there’s no water like that we usually fetch from the next compound. Though I live in a room and parlour self contain with water running in my kitchen and bathroom.
To cut the long story short, my fiancée refused to fetch water for herself to take her shower. She had to call me on phone to come home and fetch water for her to take her shower. When I eventually got home at late hour, I took the bucket went to fetch water for her to bath just for peace to rain. I later asked her why she had to call me to come and fetch water for her to bath knowing fully well that I was not around. She said in her house, she does not fetch water that her dad usually call Aboki’s and buy water from them. She told me that she can’t leave a suffering life of having to fetch water, she can never do it.
Please nairalander is this a good sign or bad sign to watch out for?
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You need no magician to tell you what you are about to face when you eventually get married..
She has a very long way to go but if you can get someone to talk to her and she agrees to change better for you..
Also,If you think you love her enough to want to tolerate her and keep running back home to fetch water and run some errands for her you can go ahead.. but I’ll advise you to please match break now.. a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage please..
Best of luck.
Kindly cancel this marriage and save yourself this headache that looming ahead. Call of the marriage with immediate effect
Leave her NOW.
She is not ready to learn ,she is not well trained up by her mother ! As a lady u should be able to manage every situation u find urself !
o boy , na danger they your front so , respect your self nd turn back , trust me that your girl na small girl btw the age of 21 to 25 na so dem dey reason ,look for matured person marry , avoid had i knw .