Two years after my white wedding, my bride price yet to be paid! My parent Back.Should I obey my parents or I should stay with him?
When we started dating about a year plus then he decided that we should get married, when I asked him how he intended to foot the marriage bills he said God will provide and that some of his family members will assist him and I told him why not get the money first before we fixed the marriage date he refused and insisted we go on.
we fixed the marriage date and a week to the marriage there was no money, I mean nothing at all, so I called my dad and informed him so he said that my fiance should call him so when he did they agreed that we should go ahead with the white wedding and after three months he should come and perform the traditional married rites, so we did the white wedding and that month I took in and delivered last year, the marriage will be 2 years by July and nothing has been done concerning the traditional marriage.
Since then my parents are on my neck, my mom is a provost in their women meeting whenever she finished sharing other peoples marriage things they won’t allow her to have her own, where other women are talking she can’t talk there, likewise my dad, to the extent I can’t visit them and they can’t visit me, now my parents are asking me to leave and come back home since his not yet ready for the marriage.
Stay with who bikonu? My dear you are not married at all,in fact your parents made the greatest mistake by telling him to go ahead with the white wedding,you better return to your father’s house this minute,you have been cohabiting since abi,which church wedded you sef,because I know some good churches will ensure that your bride price has been paid before white wedding. Nonsense and ingredients, him never pay bride price but him like to knack kpekus anyhow sotey compound people dey gather for una. Stop disgracing yourself and your parents, go back to them now,when he is ready make him come marry you if not package well and wait for man wey go do the needful,wait for man wey sabi tradition. Him for do traditional wedding leave white wedding, afterall to do white wedding no follow for African culture, na copy copy dey worry we Nigerians
Hi @Marylyn Obioma. i always look forward to reading your comments. weldone! i agree with you % on this. It’s better she goes back to her parents house till the man do the needful!
You better pack your load and go back to your father’s house.. that’s no marriage.. stop embarrassing your parents and disgracing marriage.