There are three very important questions, you must ask yourself in any romantic relationship you find yourself in, if you don’t want to be left heartbroken at the end of the day.
Because, Love, infatuation, Lust or whatever you call it, can be very deceitful and dangerous, if you aren’t careful enough to read the warning signs of a potential heartbreak, right from the very beginning.
If those warning signals are completely ignored, and you suddenly become a puppet being controlled by your emotions ( what l will term an over-powering wave of bliss sweeping you away) then, it could all end in another painful heartbreak.
It is good to be happy in someone’s arm and company. But, if you want to be happy, then, listen with your head and not your heart. If it begins to doubt what you are feeling, then it is time to ask yourself the following questions;
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Is this the kind of person and relationship l want?
If yes, then try and know if the other person truly likes and respects your personality.
Have you passed the first two stages. Yes? Good, now ask yourself;
What his or her likes and dislikes are?
Do you have a lot of disagreements on most issues? Do you think that both of you can fit into each other’s lives, without much pain and frustrations? Are you the kind that enjoys your freedom? Who is at the receiving end? Is the person at the receiving end taking more than he or she can handle? Does he/she think that your Independence, education, behavior, friends and your family members should be avoided, or changed? How does he/ she communicate with other people? How does he/she talk? Is he/she friendly, boastful, cunny, display indifference about things that concern you?
Finally, What do you want from the relationship?
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Whatever you want, your happiness lies with you. If the disadvantages out-weigh the advantages, then, you might just be taking the path of heartbreak.
Okay, you decide to go that way, ignoring the warning signals, and jump into the relationship, only to find out that, it’s not worth the effort.
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Then, call your mate quietly and peacefully call off the relationship.
Some people can easily give their souls to the goddess of love. Before you say ‘jack Robinson’, they are already deeply in love.
In such a situation, the person at the receiving end suffers the most.
Gradually move out like you gradually moved in, while maintaining a friendly atmosphere.
I didn’t say separation is going to be easy, but the earlier you start, the better for you.
However, the idea here is for you to hold your head high if you ever run into your ex in the future with his/her new partner by his/her side. No matter how painful it is leaving an unloved relationship, be strong enough to walk away when the time comes for you to move on.
Love is very essential in any romantic relationship. If the other person loves you, he/she will say and act it.
So, let’s be guided peeps, to avoid stories that touches the heart and the soul.
Ciao!
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