True Life Story: It Is Just S3x Alone -What Is The Big Deal?
Hello Lively Stones,
I am a 38-year-old full-time housewife who got married traditionally about 5 years ago. My husband is a 49-year-old who had told me he got divorced 7years ago and had 2 children from the previous marriage. The ex-wife and children stay in Canada. He is an architect who travels from time to time.
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We have been looking up to God for a child since we got married and my husband has been quite understanding. He does not stress me about our childlessness. My mother-in-law rarely picks my calls and does not trouble me about a child too. My best friend keeps advising me to do my best to give my husband a child so as to secure my place in his family.
Few months ago, my husband’s friend started living with us. It started out as him coming to stay the weekend but he has refused to leave. Whenever I bring it up, my husband simply say that the friend is trying to get on his feet and he is helping him out because the friend was there for him in the past as well.
One afternoon, the friend walked in on my husband and I having s3x and instead of getting furious, my husband asked that he joined us. I felt embarrassed that day but got used to it overtime. My husband had said it’s just s3x so the friend joins us occasionally. My husband travels a lot for work and sometimes when I feel too lonely, I simply go to his friend’s room to sort myself.
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However, few days ago, I found out I am pregnant. My husband has been on a business trip for over a month now and I do not know how to tell him. Hope he won’t question the paternity of this child? How do I know whose child I am carrying? Would it matter to him? Do I just get rid of the pregnancy?
I finally have what I have been longing for all these years but hope it will not ruin my home? Please help me.
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Dear poster, you’ve really allowed your husband to drag you into commiting sin ,how can both of you agree to threesome,and you continued seeing his friend and now you’re pregnant.
Obviously,the pregnancy is for your husband’s friend,don’t you think? Saying that you don’t know who the pregnancy belongs to ,that’s a lie. You already know
For five years,your husband couldn’t impregnate you and now you just had sex for one month with his friend, you’re already pregnant. Is God not wonderful?
Tell your husband,he has to know what you’ve been doing behind him while he was away. Keep the pregnancy,you dare not abort. It’s well oooo
Marriage is no longer sacred
Tell your husband and you people decide together. I am sure he won’t be upset because he knows you and his friend are sleeping together.
When he comes tell him
Marriage is now a cruise.
What is marriage turning into?
God has seen something.
Anyway, I believe this whole thing has been planned out before now. You were just being naive not to be able to put 2 and 2 together to get your answer.
You have been married for 5 years, both your husband and MOTHER-IN-LAW have been cool about it, your husband invites his friend to live with you, knowing that himself is a traveler and then initiates threesome with him. Who ORDINARILY does that?
Madam, you have just completed the equation. When your husband comes back, tell him it has balanced.
May God have mercy on this generation.
You don’t even belief the man you married I pity you madam
I am sorry, dear, but you bear some blame in this. First, you shouldn’t have allowed this to happen because you had the right and opportunity to prevent it. Now you are pregnant by two men. Do you plan to practice polyandry? Please note this could become a big scandal that will affect the future of the innocent child. This is a significant lesson for all of us. When we fall in love, we should open our eyes, mouths, and senses. Otherwise, we may find ourselves in a difficult situation. A manipulative man has taken advantage of you. My advice is for you to conduct a paternity test on the child to determine the real father. That’s when you can find real and true peace within yourself. You may not necessarily marry either of the two men, but you will regain your mental health and dignity.
Dear Poster,
This post you just sent should have come when you wanted to sneak into your husband’s friend’s room to sort yourself.
The ordeal has been done.
You must find the paternity of the child as quickly as you can while the child is yet unborn.
As your doctor and get a guide.
Moreover, inform your husband of the pregnancy and know if he has the plan to ascertain the paternity of the child since he introduced you to threesome with his friend.
May we not be victims of men who will ruin our lives and mess our mental health up in the future.
I hope the outcome will favour you and your kids.
All the best.
Just inform your husband. The next question he ask you, kindly fear God and tell him the truth.
Marriage is now a cruise