Hello admin,
I am writing for a friend of mine, Kelvin (Not Real name) I am very worried about both him and his wife, Charlotte. Kelvin recently left Charlotte, recently meaning the last 3 months or so for another woman. We live in a small town and I fear that once it becomes public about his affair he will face terrible shame.
It is a surprise to the few of us who know of the affair. His wife, Charlotte adored her husband, Kelvin. It is my understanding divorce papers have been filed. I do not know which of them filed for divorce. I feel this couple, my friends got off track and need to realize what all they have together.
I worry about my friend, Kelvin. The shame, humiliation and shunning he will face from cheating on Charlotte will be astronomical. I would like for him to rethink what he has done by bringing this affair between him and Charlotte.
Kelvin could not possibly love anyone more than he loves Charlotte. I fear he got wrapped up in the affair and lost sight of what he has in Charlotte. He will face terrible embarrassment, I wish to save my friend from this embarrassment. How can I help him to see what he has done is wrong? How can I help my friends?
This woman who came between Kelvin and Charlotte needs to go on about her business and leave Kelvin alone. Kelvin needs to remember the love and care he has for Charlotte. I hate, I mean hate to see Kelvin and Charlotte to divorce.
Please help them, help me to help them. Please help me to know how to bring my friends back together, to save Kelvin from the shame and the hurt he will bring his family. Kelvin’s granddaughters are young and will be embarrassed. I know, we know Kelvin would not want this.
Concerned friend.
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I feel there is more to this.
Hello Kelvin’s friend,
We got your mail and we have posted your story anonymously on our blog.
I personally wish you gave more details on your story..
Like what led to the affair? Has Kelvin tried to reconcile with his wife? Have they tried to see a counsellor?
Is the woman involved in the affair still in picture?
Yes, your friend and his marriage can be saved….if they commit to saving it.
And we can recommend a therapist for them as well.
God bless.
Talk to the cheater… And advise him to mend his ways.