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Hello ma,
Its me again. Please I need advice.
I talked to my uncle, that was on Sunday. We talked about my moving out of my baby daddy family house. So he said before he will help me but I will have to leave my daughter with my baby daddy’s parents and I don’t want too because she is a girl not a boy.
He gave me from now till on Sunday to decide what I want if I still want to go back to school and start my life afresh. I don’t mind if he doesn’t take care of me,then I can take care of my daughter. I can hustle for myself and do some petty job to take care of myself.
Ma I am stuck, I don’t know what to do. I have only three days to decide on what I want for my life. I am confused.
Please I need all the advice I could get from the house. Please I need your advice.
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Leaving your baby is not really okay, but I think you can make this work,furthering your education opens you to more opportunities, just that you must ensure to check up on your daughter very very often,and be involved in her life while she’s still with her grandparents.
Just make sure you never forget about your daughter when you get schooling till you and her can be reunited fully.
Best wishes!
This is a tough one for the seek of your daughter u have to make that sacrifice leave first wen u have gone to school then u will be in a better position to take care of her but Along wit school still keep hustling send clothes anything u can to her visit her always ok? U will be alright
Leaving that baby with her father n his parents now doesn’t mean that u are leaving her for life. Leave that baby now n give her a future leta. Please removed sentiments n be strong n start afresh,if not u will regret this ur action. Another thing,if u can’t leave her there becos u might felt that she is alone there,take her to ur mother n leave her there n go restart ur life. I have said my own oo
Do not leave your baby
My dear leave the baby for the now and give yourself and the child a future, I m not saying you should abandoned her,provision should make for you to be visiting the baby,is not easy as a mother but try because your future and that of the baby is at stake,don’t waste this chance my dear.
Leaving that baby with her father n his parents now doesn’t mean that u are leaving her for life. Leave that baby now n give her a future leta. Please removed sentiments n be strong n start afresh,if not u will regret this ur action. Another thing,if u can’t leave her there becos u might felt that she is alone there,take her to ur mother n leave her there n go restart ur life. I have said my own oo
I don’t support leaving the baby girl. With all the stories I hear of molestation and rape. Who will make sure she’s protected and ok?
Hello dear,
Permit me to ask a few questions. Is man your real Uncle? I hope he is not another man trying to take advantage of a desperate young woman?
If he is not your real uncle,if his intentions are not pure…please do not listen to him.
But if his intentions are genuine,plead with him to let you keep your baby girl.
The fact that you are not comfortable leaving your baby with your baby daddy’s family is enough course for worry.
That is called a mother’s instinct. Please do not leave your baby.
It shows you choose your child over your academics…God will visit you and one day,all these pain will be forgotten.
Please hold on….do not give into desperation. That little baby needs her mama’s protection,do not abandon her…do not subject her to the same hopeless situation you found yourself.
No one was there for you…please be there for your baby…this too shall pass.
God bless you.
Hello,
How you feel leaving your Baby is called maternal instincts. I share your sentiments particularly with all the news of rape, please don’t leave your Baby with anyone. Don’t put your Baby in the situation you were in, you didn’t have anyone but your Baby has you. I am sure God will make a way for you. Try and be resourceful no matter how small.
Please who is the uncle to you?
Is he an Uncle by blood or family? If he is not, please don’t give in to pressure of leaving your Baby. If he is an Uncle by blood or family, plead with him that he can still train you through school and you will fend for yourself and Baby through jobs. In all pray always and try and be resourceful no matter how small.
I am sure you will just be fine.