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Good morning Madam,
This is me again,thank you so much for posting my concerns on the platform for everyone to give their advises on the matter,thank u so much,I really appreciate it.
But according to some comments I read , something people thinks I was desperate to marry that was why I agreed to relocate, but that wasn’t the case at all. MY agreeing to relocate was as a result of the distance that existed between us.
And also, to at least get to know each other in a more better way. And some other persons thinks it’s because of my hatred for my man daughter that was why I beat her up,but that’s not the case either.
Not justify myself or my actions, but a lot has happened before I had to raise my hand to her. But I still appreciate all the comments thank you so much
Please help me post it again so that people will know that I appreciate all their advise and insults for those who thought it was ok to insult instead of advising.
BUT NO HARD FEELINGS AT ALL, I STILL APPRECIATE ALL OF IT
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Nwanyi oma, don’t regret your attentions okay.just go back home everything will be fine.those that insulted you didn’t read every single line and didn’t understand you trust me I do.
I pray the little girl’s life wouldn’t be destroyed
Dat is not enough for u to start living with a guy DAT has not pay ur bride price…. I advised for u is to leave d house n go stand on your own if u want to gain ur respect back…
As long as you are in that house he will not give you any respect nd value wat he has untill you are not there. Nd sorry for the insult me i thank god that you now no his real colour nd wat he can do because of his daughter. If you dont correct a child that means you dont have any love for that child you did the right thing by beating the child but the dad cant see the good part of it. So my sis dont worry he will come back nd beg after he has go round nd no woman want to stay with a spoil child he will run nd look for you with his knee on the floor.
If he loves you let him do the needful, after that he should take his time and introduce you to his daughter,she should know that you are now her mother though(step).Let your man do the needful and that’s the only way his daughter and family members will respect and value you.Sorry for all the insults you got from the group but truth needs to be told no matter what.
Hello dear,
We apologize for some of the unpleasant comments you may have got. However,I would say its good for you to see all angles on this matter.
This will help your decision making process.
Like I said to you in our private chat,you made a mistake to quit yoru job and move in with the man.
There are many people in long distance relationship. Many of whom made it successful and are married today.
So if distance is a problem,make use of technology and visit each other once in a while.
Moving in was a bad move. Also getting between the daughter and father was a bad move.
What you could have done is: do everything to win the daughter over to your side before getting to try and instill some discipline to her.
As a teenager,she may be thinking you want to replace her mother or steal her father’s love from her. The key to marrying anyone to marrying anyone with children is to become friends with the kids first.
Make them feel comfortable with you…let them confide in you and when they accept you..then you can assume they can take your advise or caution.
So my dear,move out. The relationship is sour and strained. If your man wants you,he will try and fix things after you move out. If not…let him go.
The fact that the family also has a bad impression of you is not helping. Honestly,its time to let go.
Please in the mean time,keep quiet and do not get into any conflict with them. Be smart and God will take care of you.
Cheers