My Fiancée’s Mother Is Always Stirring Trouble & I Don’t Know What To Do-Please Advise Me
So I have this friend a guy, his relation was then a bit toxic early 2020 from what I can recall, he once told me his girlfriend cheated on him before lockdown last year, he later got to know during lockdown, he let go of that since they have known each other for a very long time, I think 6 years but it’s important I go back three years before before the main issue that happened late last year.
This girl obviously love my friend, as a matter of fact, they both love each other but sometimes September 2017 the girl got pregnant for my friend, this my friend told his Mom and the whole family was cool with it but the girl could not tell her Mom but the guy mom insist that she does.
I think around December when the girl told her Mom, it became a full scale war, the girl Mom got so angry that she insulted my friend’s Mom and their family and even threatened my friend diabolically, and the girl’s Mom said she was going to abort the pregnancy, which she later when ahead with, she called My friend’s Mom that the guy should never reach out to her daughter, which the guy adhered to but the guy said he tried reaching out to the girl for about two Months but she was not ready to listen to him, then he completely cut off the relationship, no contact…
Fast forward after a year plus, their path crossed again that should be early 2019, and the girl and her Mom started calling the guy and his Mom how it was an impulsive mistake that they were sorry and the guy later persuaded his Mom and they both kick started a new relationship, it was very rocky since they have been away from each other for a very long time.
Now fast forward to September 2020, the guy moved into a new apartment, because his introduction with the girl was supposed to be Dec, in October my friend went into a deep financial crisis as he was scammed of over 6 million, his money and people’s money included, he his yet to recover till date, in November the girl got pregnant because the guy was like the girl’s Mom keep saying it’s important she get pregnant before the introduction and the guy said he wanted that also.
He was like he told the girls Mom no problems but she has to his Mom, which the girl’s Mom did but he said his Mom rejected that immediately that it is impossible and so did the whole family, the guy said that very night the woman called and his aunty was there with him at that Moment, she requested she wanted to talk to her and she insulted every Member of his family.
The guy said he was disappointed and travelled back angrily and did call the girl for about 3 weeks, but he made sure two of his friend always called her, which I was one of, he said he called the girl but by that time, she was not ready to talk to him anymore, earlier late November maybe 2 days before the whole issue started he had send the girl 240k to start up something that he was going to find ways to add up to it later, but after the whole issue he was so broke, he sent the girl 20k around early March which the girl sent back, late April, he went to the girl’s house with his brother to try find a solution, but it yielded no result, the girl gave birth last week.
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I think he should forget about marrying the girl, except he doesn’t like peace. For the child, if the girl refuses him access to the child, I believe there are legal ways he can embrace so he doesn’t get cut off completely
Your friend is a MUGU+MAGA, after the while disrespect from the lady’s family, he still sent 240k, and now wants to send 200k, I wonder when some guys will have sense, and stop spending money on girls,money they won’t spend on their own siblings, is girls they will spend it on. Your friend na better MUGU. GOD bless you.