My Husband Left Me For Another Woman – But Now Wants Me Back
Last year I found out that my husband of 20 years had been having an affair for a few months. It came as a terrible shock – I cried and cried for weeks. When asked to choose between her and me, he chose her and left me. I kept on crying.
Two months after this revelation, I met someone and fell in love. This was a lifesaving event. Suddenly I could endure the pain of my husband’s betrayal. I felt alive and young again.
Now, my husband wants me back. He sees me happy and free from him, which of course is more attractive than a lamenting woman. He is still with his girlfriend and is probably worried to leave her in case I don’t take him back. I am torn. I’m happy with my new lover, especially S.e.xually, but I also long for the relationship I had with my husband. He remains my best friend and we have so much in common.
I don’t know whether I can trust or make love to him again and I don’t know what his real motives are. Does he want me back because the grass isn’t greener or because he really loves me? But most importantly, I don’t know what I want. How do I find out?
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My dear sister. Its painful for the person you married, to leave you for another woman, but you said two months after he left you, you fell in love with another man….are you sure its love or just lust cos you said he makes you happily S.e.xually, sister did you even marry this man the right way or you guys just met and started dating and having S.e.x, I must be honest with you sister, you were very vulnerable when your husband left you so any man that came to you made it easy for you to fall for him, and S.e.x is involved, and you will agree with me that S.e.x distorts your sense of reasoning especially women, so my sister, do you really love this man like you said or just S.e.x and lust. You said your husband came back, he has been cheating until you found out and even after you found out, he left you, pls my dear sister, if you TRUELY LOVE this other man, I mean truely love not S.e.x, take away the S.e.x, do you still love him, if so then forget your ex husband, he had been cheating and yet still left you, he is not serious at all, but I say again do you love this new man or its the S.e.x that has blocked your sense of judgement and reasoning. I wish you all the best sister. GOD bless you. I am Akin