This Guy Sweeping Me off My Feet! How Can I keep This Relationship Without Showing My Feelings?
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.
Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I’m in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.
I’m now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn’t read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I’m falling head over heels for him. I’m trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I’m just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.
PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks
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Thank you for reaching out.
First of all, it’s not a sin to show your feelings too but it’s also good that you’re very cautious.
Since the guy is showing some level of seriousness, I want to tell you my dear, LIFE IS SPIRITUAL. If you are thinking of commitment towards the relationship, then you need to do the needful by taking the matter to God. Are you hearing this?
Don’t let your emotions dictate for you. Go to God in prayer, tell Him that according to His Word, He said, “a man will leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife” and that you have found a man, is he the one He has ordained for you?
Make sure you stay in the place of prayer until you get an answer. In the meantime, you can have a platonic relationship with him. Get to know the guy, his vision, plans, etc till God will give you an answer.
Till then, be patient and don’t lose focus.
God bless you.
There is nothing wrong in showing seriousness about the relationship but be careful with your emotions, don’t let your emotions control you.
Start praying about this relationship to
Just make sure he loves you more,there is no harm showing him that you care and love him. Just be careful, remember it is just a fresh relationship, naso the thing dey be,e dey shack .Just take your time nne
Take it one step at a time, Las Las you go dey ok
The is serious but you don’t want to show him you likes him too much. Turn the table around now and if the guy don’t want to show you he likes you too much how would you feel? You want him to receive and never give back. If you can’t express your feelings kindly leave him because his better of without you.
Bros abi Na you b d guy ?