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True Life Story: Guess What Just Happened? My Ex Called Asking For Financial Assistance After Humiliating Me!


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True Life Story: Guess What Just Happened? My Ex Called Asking For Financial Assistance After Humiliating Me!



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Some years ago on a rainy Friday evening, I was too shy to kiss her even when she asked for it, so I ended up hugging her and running home to avoid the rain.

She later called me and said I was not man enough and lacked the requisite excitement she wanted for her life. “WTF, you’re just boring, a waste of time and truly, I don’t see myself going anywhere with you.” That’s what she said to me 💔


One thing about harsh words is that the person who says them may forget and move on with life, but the person who is told rarely forgets. In this case, I never forgot those words and they kept hurting me so bad. In fact they made me stick with her more as I tried to prove that I wasn’t those things. This was a very pathetic situation I found myself in.

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I kept in touch over the phone and sometimes through lunch but she kept her distance.

One night, I called her and after speaking for some minutes, she handed the phone to a guy who introduced himself as her guy. Mumu me, I was calm and hailed him. Chai, Ebuka iwu nno Ewu Gambia 😕😕😕

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“I heard you are the one who has been in my babe’s life since, so tell me, have you ever touched or kissed her before because I think I am having the best time of my life now”, he said to me.

Those words even cut deeper and I knew I had to take a stand at this point because it became clear to me I was being ridiculed and insulted.

I ended the call and from that day, I kept my distance from her both in the real world and on social media.

I got involved with life and forgot about her entirely. When she got married and gave birth to her first child, I found out years later from one of our mutual friends.

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I decided to take that time to build myself.

Between then and now is about 10 years and hell yes, my life has gotten a lot better than I ever imagined. But the story didn’t end there. Because most nights, I still remember those hurtful words she said to me.

So just last night at about 8:30PM, I received a call from her and I was surprised I still had her number on my phone because we have not spoken in a very long time; years!


My contacts automatically backup to my cloud so I figured that’s why it was still there. We exchanged pleasantries and she wasted no time in telling me she was in trouble. “Tee, I need your help please. You’re the only one who came to my mind and if I had another option, definitely I won’t have called you.”

I was surprised in all these years; I was the one she reached out to and she even called me Tee instead of Tony. Odeberela!!!

Well, she gave birth and her husband’s finances have plummeted for several reasons and she was almost exhausted. She needs some money to clear her hospital bill as she just gave birth and is being held in the hospital.


I asked the amount and told her to text her account details. I sent her double the amount she asked for so she can take care of other needs. Before we ended the call, I asked her if she remembered those hurtful words she said to me 10 years ago and she had no memory of it.

She couldn’t recall ever saying those things to me and even went on to say if she had the chance to be younger again and pick a partner, she would happily pick me over and over again. 😕😕😕

I know she was saying the truth, because sometimes people forget how much they hurt others with their words because they feel it is not a big deal. They were just catching a cruise and didn’t care about the other person. I have seen countless instances of this online and in the real world.


About 30 minutes later, she sent me a picture of her new born baby lying on her bosom. “My husband will give him a native name while I will give him a first name. I will name him Tony.”

I looked at that picture and all the anger I have built up in my heart for her over these years just melted away. Somewhere in my heart, I still loved her. And maybe that may never change regardless of where she is or who she is with.

I really don’t know why I wrote this Sha, be like I don high 🤣

But I wish you learn something from it, no matter how little


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