True Life Story: He Used And Dumped Me After 4 Abortions! How Do I Get Him Off My Mind? Help!
Good day…
Please post for me, I’m heart broken. I noticed that anytime I go into a relationship at the beginning it will be very sweet then along the line the guy will just develop unnecessary hatred towards me for no just cause.
Now currently, I’ve been in a relationship for 4 to 5years now though i left him sometime because I asked him the future of the relationship but no reply and I later came back because of the love I have for him and that has been the worst mistake of my life. Coming back to him again this guy dealt with me. I became emotionally unstable. He started using abusive words on me, how Is because I’m opening leg for him and his entering so I think the both of us are age mate, a whole lot of things that he said to me that no man will like to loss a good man.
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I cried my eyes out asking God were I actually went wrong, because I don’t understand where the words I’m hatred is coming from, this particular guy made me commit 4 abortion all because he told me he does not have a stable job yet and wouldn’t want me to suffer. I tolerated his womanizing habits and lot more because of love, but each time he wants to talk to me he always tells me how over sense is worrying me, that he is leaving because I have too much sense.
For close to one year now we’ve gone our separate ways but I’m yet to move on each time I see him I always I always feel bad and my heart beats faster, at times I will just go home and cry.
I’m finding it difficult to go into another relationship and I now see all men like the same. Please how do I overcome each time I think about him I shed tears for allowing myself to be used up to this level but I still love him.
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You need to stop fornicating sister, S.e.x is ONLY for marriage, this should be your standard in your next relationship.
On abortion, you did it four times, my dear sister, abortion is murder, all these women that say my body my choice are just wicked women, how can you kill a human and say my body my choice.
I wish you knew the extent of wickedness of abortion, but its done already. You cry cos you think you can’t live without the guy and moreso both of you were fornicating, you both were destroying each other. So this is the time to reflect deeply on your life and know your worth.
Just forget about the guy, you said this “each time I think about him I shed tears for allowing myself to be used up to this level but I still love him.”…exactly, cos you are now realizing you can do without him, but you said each time you see him, your heart beats faster and you cry.
My dear friend, you can do without him, you surely can and you will, I’m sure you too had your faults.
But another issue I’m VERY CONCERNED about is you said, anytime you are in a relationship, I will be sweet but along the line, the guy develops hatred for you for no reason, this statement is not an ordinary statement oo.
You may have a spiritual problem sister, hatred all of a sudden, thats very serious, thinking you have a dark aura due to fornication, trust fornication brings spiritual darkness into your life, if you are not ready to stop fornicating, you may keep experiencing it, but its just my opinion.
Pls reflect on you life deeply and make necessary amends, you gonna be ok, oya smile for me….lol.
Happy new year to you sister. May this year bring you blessings, favor, good news, success and other good things.
Peace.
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