True Life Story: Help I Am Being Blackmailed For An Entanglement With A Married Man
Hi Lively Stones,
Two years ago, I was in a very dark place. I had just been dumped by my boyfriend of 3 years. I was so heartbroken and suicidal for many weeks. I was in shock, denial and finally anger …then I finally accepted my fate. Everyone knew about me and my ex where I lived so I had to move out of that area to start afresh in a new place. I moved into a new place but I was still depressed. I felt hollow and alone and I was afraid I was going to end up lonely for the rest of my life. At age 36, no boyfriend or husband.
So, I decided that if it was God’s will for me to be single, then I will have a child to at least share love with and keep me company. So, I made up my mind to have s3x with any stranger whatsoever that came my way. I also drank alot, anything to drown my sorrow. Maybe because I had been on contraception for years, I was surprised that I was not getting pregnant even though I was sexually very active. I became a slut…s3x was now my get away…I was always horny.
My girlfriends became worried…they organized an intervention for me and warned me about getting infected by sleeping with different strangers. I agreed with them to stop letting every tom, dick and harry into my pants, so I stopped and tried to date but only married men wanted to sleep with me. After two years , I decided to target men that I know…but most of them were not single…yes, I am sorry …I targeted married men but I never wanted anything from them….just their sperm. One man I chatted with, lives in the same estate as me. Married with 2 kids but he wanted to get freaky so he would sneak to my place or sometimes, we had s3x in my car in the dark.
I eventually got pregnant and cut him off. But this man refused to end things with me. He started stalking me and begging me. I told him I now have a boyfriend and I am done with him…he refused and said he would leave his wife for me if I wanted. I thought it was a joke but he sent me a voice note of him and his wife fighting as he told her he wanted a divorce. This broke me cos I now understood how men can be so heartless.
Just because of p*ssy…..you betray a woman that has given everything to you? Just the same way my ex dumped me for another woman, this married man wants to leave his wife cos of me? Yes, I know some girls will happily accept this but I believe in Karma. I cannot be the cause of another woman’s heartbreak. In trying to right this wrong, I contacted the wife and sent her messages her husband sent to me, told her that I am not interested in her husband and I want her husband to leave me alone.
My goal actually was to give the woman some support or evidence so she can fight the man and know I am not going to be the reason for their divorce. But this stupid woman in anger went ahead and shared my number on the estate group as the woman who is cheating with her husband and has the audacity to contact her to fight her. I was embarrassed. Her shameless husband was not…cos some people started saying that they know him as a community preek that has been sleeping with different women in the estate.
Then something bad happened….someone hacked into this man’s phone and got videos of him f*cking different women. And one of the videos had me and him in it. I could not believe this man taped us having s3x. And the blackmailer is demanding for money from him. This man told me and apologized for dragging me into this scandal. The hacker is planning to release the videos on the whatsapp group if the man does not pay.
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Like I said, the man is shameless and has said he is not going to pay. It is now up to me if I want to pay the blackmailer so he will leave my own video out …I hear some women are already making plans to pay so their own video will not be shared. Its a big mess cos I am even suspecting this man…what if he collaborating with the blackmailer? He denied it already sha. I went to the police to make a statement but they said they cannot trace the blackmailer because the blackmailer always used private number in calling.
I am desperate and need of advice. I did this with this man to get a child. Now that am pregnant, I dont want my child to be dragged into this….if my s3x tape is leaked, people might now know the father of my child. The blackmailer is asking for N100M…N20 for each woman…there are 5 of us in different videos with him. I dont have N20M to pay him…I offered what I can which is N1.5M but it was turned down.
Two days ago, he released one woman’s video and its the video of a very conservative woman…..the woman’s husband sent her away the next day. Men….scum…see how quickly he threw his wife out…no repercussion for the man who f*cked her…the cheater…his wife of course will not leave him….but he destroyed another marriage. I hear 2 other woman have paid the blackmailer…its me and one other woman and I am scared to my bones what will happen …the blackmailer has threatened to share the video to my employers.
I confided in a friend of mine and he advised me to play the victim…that I should say I am was not aware the man was married and that I broke it off when I found out he was married….please I need advice…should I go along with this advice because it seems its my only way out….I am really worried about this video getting to my employers, family and friends….and most especially…for my baby father to be revealed….please advise me on what to do…should I play the victim? Will that save my job…will that reduce the embarrassment?
Anonymous
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All this blackmailer, are you sure he will still not be demanding for more money after making payments?
Lesson learnt:
Its always better to do the right thing.
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It a difficult situation, You must be a nice person to even b considering the mental health of your unborn child,
Blackmailers always have it saved in Cloud, so they will always have it even if they told u they have deleted it from their phones, laptop and elsewhere. So why pay for something thats eventually gonna be released anyway when u can’t meet up again?
Sex tape is dangerous.
Maybe, you need to get a lawyer to help you out here.
Probably, there could be a way to find this blackmailer. I strongly suspect that man, his wife and someone in the estate.
Fear people…they lead you kn and destroy you for their selfish reasons.
This goes to say that for such a risky relationship, you were too careless to have it even in a car and with a married man and one in your estate.
Talking about the paternity of the xhidl being exposed… How? Will you tell them he is the father?
I hope you find a peace of mind in the midst of it all.
Do you have anything to loose? You don’t, you were depressed remember? , who would know he is the father, you would be forgotten in a bit , just relocate to another city n start over decently with your child period.
Poster don’t pay shishi! Do you hear me? Use that money you want to pay the blackmailer to relocate to another country or another state! That aside! Repent sister! That a man left you should not be the reason you destroy yourself! Stop fornication already! There’s no good in it! Give your life to Christ Jesus! Husband will come if you so desire! It is only God that can help you out of this situation now! Pray for forgiveness! God is ever present even in our time of need! You’re giving your ex an edge to justify his actions on you! Be wise!
It’s funny now everyone is supporting you and didn’t condemn your wickedness. You called the married man a shameless and heartless man, I ask, you that was sleeping with a married man,
what are you? Sleeping with another woman’s husband, I guess women are no longer supporting women?
You just kept making excuses for your wicked ways and other women calling me scum, what of you that was sleeping with a married man and married women cheating on their husbands? You can’t call men scum and expect me not hold you accountable . You want to play the victim that you didn’t know he was married, after you contacted his wife, are you for real?
I think you are an irresponsible lady, you were sleeping with Men just to get pregnant, when the child asks you “who is my father” you then start painting the father as bad, that he dumped you bla bla bla as you women always do.
The man has every right to his child. You knew what you were doing more so, you said this “I targeted married men but I never wanted anything from them….just their sperm” so you can’t act like you didn’t know what you were doing.