True Life Story: My Neighbor’s Wife Is Playing A Dangerous Game With Me
Dear Lively Stones,
I am a young man of 30 years old. I want to remain anonymous because I am quite shy to say this but I need your help. Before I go ahead, let me mention that I have a 4 year old son. I had an ex girlfriend that was on and off kind of situation. We were not exclusive so I was shocked when she said she was pregnant for me. She asked me if I wanted an abortion, that I should give her 300k for the abortion.
Of course I told her I would not give her any 300k. That if she is sure the child is mine, she should have the child, after she give birth, I will do DNA and if the child is mine, I will accept the child. Like play, she kept the pregnancy. I was surprised when she was five months pregnant and started asking me for money to take care of her pregnancy. I started wishing I gave her the 300k but it was too late. She eventually gave birth and the DNA showed I was the father.
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This girl dumped the baby for me and left just like that. My mother is late so I had to beg my aunty to help me raise the baby and she did until the boy was two years old, my aunty asked me to come and take my son. That is how I became a single father. Since then, I have been very careful in my relationships cos I don’t want o have any child with any woman until I am sure the relationship will lead to marriage.
Early this year, a new neighbor moved into our compound. It was a family of four. One nice looking couple with 2 children, one boy and one girl. Instantly, we struck a rapport cos they were very nice people and I was happy cos my son now gets to have play dates with my neighbors kids. This couple so nice, they invited me to eat and spend time with them many times. And the wife was stunning beautiful. I mean, anytime I look at them, I wish I had this kind of family.
They even started to invite me to their church and I started going to church because of them. They would tease me when I was going to get married but I would say until I find a woman like the wife of this couple cos I admire them so much. Things were very good. Until about three months ago. I started noticing that the wife was getting physically too close to me. At first, I thought it was my imagination but I started noticing that she would pass close to me, her breast or ass would brush over me.
One time, she was gisting with me, and she leaned over so low….he cleavage was showing. I was so distracted at her breasts, I could not look again. I got up and left. Then she went more direct afterwards. When no one was looking, she would touch my ears or pinch my nipples. I pushed her hand away asking her what is she doing…she smiled. And then, she began to send me sexy poses of her in just lingerie or she touching herself but she made sure to hide her face.
I had enough. I had to ask her…what is up and she was like,…nothing. That she is just playing with me. I was like, stop this play unless you want to regret it. Then she said, are you man enough…she was daring me. Every moment, every day she was tempting and daring me. One Saturday afternoon, my son was in their house with her kids watching cartoon. I told them I wanted to sleep cos I was up all night doing some work. Her husband was and she said she wanted to cook. I said ok. I went to sleep and after a while, I noticed someone was at my door…I asked who was it…she said it was her that my son wanted some caprisone and theirs was finished.
With sleepy eyes…I got up…I was not wearing a shirt, just my boxers…so I opened the door and wanted to hand her the caprisone but she was just staring at my chest …I smiled and told her to take the caprisone and go before she will regret it….this woman said…I want to regret it….she pushed me back inside and locked the door behind me. The kissing was intense…I was very aroused…she had been teasing me for months and my body was ready to take hers. We made love…we f*cked for an hour.
After she left…she was like….my performance was worth the wait…meaning she had been waiting for me. I asked her why she was doing this…she said she got married as a virgin and always wondered what it was like with another man. So since the day they moved into the compound, she was attracted to me and since I started coming close to them, she decided to try her fantasy of being with another man. I asked her what if her husband finds out…she was like…I wont tell if you don’t…she said she’s just catching cruise so we don’t have to feel bad about it. That she loves her husband,….she just wants to feel the excitement and danger of being with another man.
That day….I felt so guilty…I made up my mind to stop all communication with her. I realized I was in love with her or maybe I have strong feelings for her. Meanwhile.,…she just wants to have fun. This woman is everything I pictured in a wife. Sexy wife and good mother material. Every time she passed, men turned at look at her….I know her husband knows hes got a great catch for a wife and me I knew this was dangerous for me. I confided in a friend who warned me of the repercussion of sleeping with a married woman. Since then, I have been fighting her constant harassment and seduction. She wants me again. I have stopped going to their house…and since she uses my child to get to me, I have stopped allowing my son to go to their house too. I also stopped going to their church.
I would rather masturbate at her pictures than sleep with her again. And she wants that so bad. This change in my behavior was noticed by the husband who called me two weeks ago to ask me why I stopped visiting them and hanging out with them or going to church with them. I lied that I have decided to stay on my own and that I am too busy these days. The man was so bothered that he sent his ”wife” to come and find out from me what the issue is…of course, I did not allow her to enter my house.
This woman told her husband that I did not allow her enter. Since then, the man has been asking me:bruv…are you ok….and I am like…I am ok. I am trying to keep my head down and stay away from trouble….three days ago….this woman sends me a video of her and her husband making love….she knew that would affect me…that a couple have a s3x tape together was a mind buster….few minutes after she sent it…she was at my door ringing the bell….all the hair on my body was telling me not to open the door but I did.
The rest you can imagine…this woman wants to destroy me…she has taken away all the defenses I have and I don’t know what else to do to keep her away….my rent still has one year 3 months on it…how do I leave this apartment and run away from this woman? My son loves her so much. I don’t have a girlfriend and so I think I need to find a girlfriend soon…maybe that will take her mind off me or take my mind off her…I have been trying to find a sensible girl to ask for a relationship since yesterday…that is how I stumbled on Lively Stones Facebook group. I read your stories and was so intrigued and so I decided to send my own story.
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Please share my own story and let me hear what the comments have to say. I feel terrible and guilty about what I am doing but how do I stop this? Will getting a girlfriend help? Or do I look for someone to buy my remaining rent while I pack out of the apartment? I don’t even have enough money for new apartment which comes with agency and all that crap. Mehn….I don jam wahala…The major reason I am feeling so bad is because this woman’s husband is such a nice guy…he trusts me so much with his family….if only he knows his virgin wife has freaky ideas….I am in deep shit and I need help and advice on what to do.
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The solution begins from your mind.
You shouldn’t run away only. Start shutting her off completely from your mind.
See her as a sacrilege that will being you doom and leave your son fatherless.
If you love your son enough then let his safety and happiness be your motivation to avoid trouble and focus on yourself.
Make it clear to yourself that she is a sin that destroys.
Leave that woman and close all doors through which she will get at you. If she sends vidoes, delete , DON’T Watch. Avoid the temptation of watching it. Stop masturbating with her picture, you are the one watering the seed of adultery spiritually.
It might not be only her, it could lead to sleeping with women randomly to ease the urge soon.
Ask God for forgiveness and give your life to God, ask Him for strength to overcome the sin.
If you admire the couple then have a couple goal to keep yourself for your own wife and diligently with prayers seek for a wife.
From this moment, block that woman off your contact to avoid her reaching you with her Videos and pictures.
What you permit you serve. If you permit her urge, then you will serve her request and body.
Delete her thoughts and anticipation of having fun with her.
Church isn’t for perfect people , it’s for perfecting people. She still have work to do on herself and wants to destroy you alongside.
Incase you don’t know, some cultural practices of some people will have a man killed for sleeping with a married woman or the husband gets killed because the woman cheated.
Be warned!
Start your plans to leave that apartment. Trust God to favour you since you are doing it to honour His name and avoid trouble.
Start going to church and avoid their church. Your child needs a spiritual family and you too.
Join a Christian group and connect with others.
From today, fill your mind with other good thoughts and resist the urge to serve her and her body.
Resist the devil and he will flee… resist her even with her naked before you, she will flee.
I hope you help yourself as fast as you can.
Dear poster,you are a wonderful man with conscience,as I was going through your story,I could sense some sort of sincerity and honesty.
Here is the deal,create a boundary,be firm,stop every form of interaction,always lock your door,gate or whatever it’s that can make her gain access or entrance to your room.
Keep all videos,chats,pictures as evidence,don’t delete,I repeat don’t delete.
You will not pack out of that house,you will remain there and be responsible,be sensible and reasonable enough to desist from adultery and immorality.
You need to warn her, you’re still in love with her body that’s is why you lack the boldness and courage to put her in her place.
Don’t allow the devil to use you,be wise and stop doing anything with a married woman. You need to know what you want,stop sleeping with her,just stop my friend,stop it,stop it now.
Peace
I wonder how some women come up with these devilish ideas to ruin a man’s life and never scared of loosing thier marriage. We can be friends if you don’t mind perhaps that will help you get her off your mind.
Mr King,
You are totally out of line. If you have nothing worthy to write then please keep quiet.
I am really ashamed of you.
You dont have to agree with the poster….you dont need to even advice….you can just walk away.
But to tell someone they will be killed and you will spit on their grave….YOU ARE WRONG AND YOU WILL NOW BE BANNED FROM THE COMMUNITY.