True Life Story: Help! My Friend Is Advising Me To Leave My Marriage. What Could Be Her Motive?
I’m awake by this time of the night because am disturbed there is this friend of mine she has three beautiful daughters and currently pregnant I have two wonderful boys by God’s grace.
My Friend since I’ve known the only advice she use to give me whenever I have issues with my husband is that I should leave the marriage, the only problem wey me and my husband dey get normally nah money matter but this my friend will just say I should leave my marriage.
My husband is a good man but doesn’t give enough money but gives outside and my family but doesn’t give me that’s the only issue I do have with him, it’s been long this my friend started telling me to leave after all the talk I will take like joke because am not really telling her because I need advice but to cool off when the matter full my head, two nights ago she came to my house at night and started telling me to leave my marriage she was shouting it as if we’re quarreling.
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I just kept quiet because I don’t know her mission that same day her brother made passes at me this guy was married but this my friend chased the wife away because she is the one that gave her brother money for the marriage although the brothers wife is lazy I have witness it but I believe it’s not her business, my friends husband is very rich my husband is still growing and her husband come from a wealthy family.
I do tell her my husband no dey chase girls but her husband is a womanizer according to her so she told me she cut my husband with another her sister even confirmed it, she is just telling me to go. I’m still looking for a job but each time I bring it up Incase she see vacancy she will tell me a married woman no dey find work that how will I take care of my kids, she said a lot about my husband I just kept quiet shaaa but I was mad inside of me.
This my friend is always wanting me to see my husband as a bad person because of money I know my husband doesn’t give enough money but I still manage the one I see he is not always around but when he is around I do collect extra when he’s in good mood. Now my husband is forcing me to travel because I told him this, I told him because I couldn’t fathom what my friends concern really is and I don’t have anyone to discuss this with.
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My husband said my children should stop going to their house as well. I came to you because I don’t know what to do, my husband said he will confront her when he comes back which am not ready to end the friendship because my husband is something else and she is always there whenever I come to her, and she is the only friend I have here.
I don’t want my husband to confront her or her brother in as much as I don’t like what they did/said to me. And I also don’t want to travel for the Christmas because my clothes are old and my co wives are coming back too I don’t want to go there and be looking different my husband said he doesn’t have money for our cloth the one my children will use I bought them since August which he is oblivious of he said we should wear the ones we have. And am currently out of job.
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Dear poster,a friend shouldn’t be telling you to leave your marriage,check that woman well,she is not a good friend.
Stop going to her house,stop being friends with her,dey your lane biko and mind your marriage.
Manage whatever you get from your husband and put in effort to get a job rather than complaining to your friend who will end up giving you bad advice on how to leave your marriage,why has she not left hers? Her husband has money yet he womanizes,yours is managing but faithful to you,be wise!
Whatever old clothes you have,wash them well, iron them and prepare to travel for Christmas if really there is need to travel,if not,stay in your house and save that money you will spend on transportation, transportation now no be anybody mate ooooo.
Be content with what you have,your husband is a good man so treat him as such.
Peace
She is not your friend at all. Unfriend her quickly. Accept your husband’s effort, appreciate it. There may not be money for clothes every Christmas. If you’re a committed church member, you’ll have many godly women to choose a friend from.
What if she drugs you and arrange her brother to molest you?
Watch your back o
It’s good you seek advice cos that woman friend of yours is a very good bad egg. Better cut off from her cos you’re gonna regret it in future. She’s not your God.
You must understand that no marriage in this world is perfect. Your husband is spending within his mean of income and all that you can do is to support him, he is a wonderful man.
Ask yourself this question, why haven’t your so called friend leave her marriage since her husband is cheating on her, or is that not a good ground for her to leave him? And she is telling you that your husband cheats, whereas her own husband cheats as well.
The truth is that she is jealous of your marriage, if you leave that marriage she will go for your husband. It might sound untrue but trust me that is the truth.
Don’t allow a snake into your garden to feed you with lies, in others to take over your garden. Shot all doors of strange words in your marriage. Your husband is wise for wanting to confront this woman cos it was the silence of Adam the gave the serpent the right to speak to Eve.
you without her in your life. If you leave that marriage were are you going to start from again as a mother of two, another woman will come and reap what you sowed. Her sister and brother are being controlled by her wealth to tell lies against your husband. Stick with your husband.