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My Relationship With My Half Sister Wants To Destroy My Life-Please Advise

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My name is Frank (not real name) I am a university dropped out, I was opportuned to work in a company which later made me a branch manager after 3 years. I was doing well for myself but I had no adviser, yes they don’t pay well but I do meet my monthly target which helped me alot with the little salary they paid.
I lost my job in 2017, I lost everything. I couldn’t pay my rent and I was kicked out, I squatted with some friends and they always find one reason or the other to throw me out.
My mum divorced my dad and got married to another man, so we were not in good terms, but she kept telling me to come stay with them until God intervenes in my matter. I finally gave up and went there April 2019.
You see, I have been squatting from 2017 to 2019. No other job was coming my way since then and I hated the fact that I live by friends who really don’t care. Thanks guy will leave me in his shop without food and left till 9pm when we get home before I will eat for the whole day. It was a torture though.
So I went to the village where my mum and her husband pastor a very local church. The village too is a local one, it takes the grace of God to see #200 and even if you see it, it takes the grace of God to see what you buy with it. It was a very bad experience.
Her husband receives #9000 as salary from the church and I was told that for the past two years the church has not paid him. A church where if they see #500 from offering it is like a Christmas day for them.
I regretted going there because the little change I had, finished there and I was a broke ass. They have about 10 children all in school. Did I say school hmm, they go to school and come back to sit at home when the school pursues them for their school fees. As a big brother, it was difficult for me to buy things for them because there will be problem.
10 siblings, the most I do was to be buying carton of noodles so it will go round for them.
From these siblings, there is a 21 year old girl who just finished her waec. The village boys and old men kept pestering her for marriage. I took it upon myself to defend her and all the small cash I saved up, I lavished on her.
Shoes, clothes. I made sure she changes hairstyle. She has never done style of hair in her life. I made sure she lacked Nothing because I was told that in that village you can sleep with any girl you want, just buy noodles or viju milk for them.
You will see little children with pregnancy. Even elderly men with four wives are still hiring those little children.Problem started when she told me she wished to have someone like me as her boyfriend or husband as the case maybe. She said she loved me because I have a good heart and care about people too much especially, herself.
Few days after she jokingly asked a question. She asked, do brothers marry their sisters?
I said no but in some countries I think they do but we don’t do it here. One night we sat as we discuss. She always like to touch my chest and breast because I gym so I have a broad chest.
So she did the same thing that night and I told her it’s not good, that she should stop touching my nipples and she laughed and said, do your own back na. If I touch your own you touch my own. I was like, what???? She said yes and took my hand to her chest hmm.
Weeks after, I was sleeping and I felt a hand running through my body, it was around 5am in the morning, to be candid, that morning I was very hard because I’ve not had s*x for more than 3 years.
When I jumped off from my sleep it was her, my manhood was already in her hand and other siblings were sleeping. I couldn’t shout on her. She kissed me and I responded. Then I got up and went to the to the toilet and didn’t go back to bed till I was daybreak.
Days later she repeated this and I was weak to resist so I wanted to penetrate her and she shouted, even my siblings from the other room asked what was the matter. I have jumped down from her as soon as she shouted….
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Jzhane
Jzhane
A passionate people and godly relationship advocate!...Trained Psychologist and Human Resources Practioner. A seasoned Marriage and relationship counsellor. A mother, wife, sister, friend and daughter. J

21 COMMENTS

  1. Hmmmm, Brother abi ,uncle, hope you didn’t do what you were protecting her from ? If it is that you did it ,hmmmm.

  2. My dear go and look for ur friend and talk to her …and also explain hw u met her ex and also tell her u never had eyes on her ex while dey were still dating

  3. You were trying to prevent other guys from sleeping with her, now you are the one instigating it. You let her to play too much with you and now, you have allowed lust to consume you to the point of incestism.

    This is serious.

  4. I just hope he’s able to hold himself and you should also reduce the too much play with her, show some maturity, you are supposed to show her the right way as a big half brother and not take advantage of her naivety.

    I’m wondering why you had to lavish your savings on her, don’t you have future plans to move out of the village?

      • U had beta look for a way out of that village,before u do something that u will live regrets all ur life, remember that u wanted to protect her from the village boys n old men, please as much as u can leave that village before that girl becomes a very big problem for u

  5. Na wao.. anyways If I were you I will try to find a way to talk to her it won’t be an easy thing considering how she is but pray see her if that doesn’t work then get any one close to her to speak with her then keep praying

  6. Seriously how will your body respond to your won sis . I pray you don’t end up doing what I am thinking because if not …..it’s gonna be a great mess. You should have draw the line immediately she touched your chest.

  7. These are the experiences of many lives that has been destroyed.one has to be really careful when helping people most expecially when it has to do with the opposite s*x. I smell a set up here though.

  8. This has destroyed many innocent lives..one has to be very careful when it has to do with helping the opposite s*x no matter who they are to you. I smell a set up here though cos I don’t understand why she shouted afterall that was what she has been asking for.

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