True Life Story: How Former Best Friend Is Trying To Manipulate My Husband
Good morning Madam Jzhane,
I need your advice…I don’t know how to start this story without being judged for what I am about to share. But I am really confused and don’t know what else to do. So my friend and I moved to Lagos five years ago. We grew up in very hard conditions in Auchi (not real name). Life was very hard but when we dropped out of school, my friend Uyi decided that we should go to Lagos to find a better life.
We did not know anyone in Lagos. Uyi first went. She stayed under the bridge, in motor parks, then started working as a prostitute, later she called me to come over when she finally rented her own room. Life was hard….very hard. In that one room, in Okoko….me and my friend were hustling, sleeping with different men, just to make it in life. We tried to quit the night life to do other things like house girl, the men in those homes always wanted to sleep with us and when the madam found out, they threw us out.
The thing is, God blessed me and my friend with good body, so it was really hard for men to resist us. Our weapon was our p*ssy. We used it for over three years to survive. I eventually learnt hair dressing and styling and nail care and ,make up, etc…I saved money and got a shop to start my business. Uyi too stopped being a daily prostitute, she became a contract hook up. What that means, was she was a high class call girl for rich men.
We were both doing well and sending money home. We even started planning to buy property in this Lagos. Under four years, God has been good to us, our hustle was beginning to pay off. I kept trying to convince Uyi to leave the hook up but the money involved was too tempting. Uyi has a big restaurant in Lagos…but she was still doing hook ups cos one hook up can earn her like 5M once.
Recently, Uyi got a call to organize ladies for an escort job. The client needed 15 high class girls. Uyi was only able to provide 12 cos not all girls can do this high class client job. My friend had to beg me to help her. I told her I was done with that life but she begged and begged…well…she is my friend…my ride or die…I would do anything for her cos she has done so much for me. So, I agreed to do this for her…just this once.
We got ready and went to the event in a high brow hotel in V.I…everything was going very well….we met the Clients and I was assigned to someone for the night. When we got to the hotel, the client wanted to smoke weed first….I had stopped weed for a long time so I declined….he asked me why…I told him I stopped smoking weed. Somehow, we started talking and this man seemed very interested in me, my life, he wanted to know why I was doing hook up and I explained everything to him.
This guy told me that I should go, that since I retired from this business, he cant f*ck me…he said its fine….we do not need to f*ck and we will still get paid. He then asked for my account no and transferred 1M to me. I was touched and moved…so I told him I would f*ck him for the pleasure of it….not for the job. This job has skills and I can say I am quite skilled….gave this nice man the time of his life ….he was quite speechless….as I got up and ready to leave…next thing he said was….what if I ask you to marry me?
I stopped and said….you dont know me…cos you enjoyed my f*ck…you think you want to marry me? This man goes to say….he lost his wife to cancer last year and he has not been in any serious relationship and he wants to marry someone who is not out for his money but someone who can make him happy…he said he enjoyed his time with me and wanted us to be in a relationship and possibly marry cos he does not want me to hustle anymore…he said he would sponsor my business too.
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We talked till dawn….Uyi and the other girls were ready to go, so we exchanged nos and since then, we kept in touch. This man’s name is Frank (not real name). He is a Nigerian but spent most of his life in America. He is very western. He treated me really well. Our relationship was very fast but we were both very happy….now, Uyi could not believe my luck…that I found a husband from hook up. Infact, the no one rule of ashawo business is….you cannot fall in love or marry a client….and Uyi was not happy I was breaking that rule.
Uyi has discouraged my relationship and told me to forget about Frank. Cos if he marries me, he will always see me as a former prostitute. I ignored Uyi cos I was happy…That made Uyi very upset and she asked me to leave the apartment we share together. I moved into Frank’s place. Uyi stopped talking to me…infact, she started spreading hateful gist about me, telling our close friends that she was the one who introduced me to Frank ….that she had eyes on Frank but I stole Frank from her.
People were now advising me to leave Frank cos I should not let a man come between me and my friend. I was confused…I wondered why Uyi was not happy for me. I can only say that she was jealous that my luck changed suddenly and I am marrying such a high class person like Frank. Frank has met my people and made marriage introductions. Our wedding is coming up next month….Frank poured huge money into the wedding and my bank account . We got married eventually. I was very very happy.
Frank changed my life. He never judged me for my past. My husband is happy with me cos I keep him very satisfied…he has a high libido and that is not a problem for me cos na my work be that. Sometimes we go to the club together cos he likes the vibes….and I am his best hook up he says…so he wants me to come and show off that he has a hot and S.e.xy babe…then Frank was invited to an event like the one we met each other…he asked me to tag along cos he wants me to wait in the hotel room after the event so they will not arrange a hook up girl for him.
My husband went for his meeting and I was waiting and waiting….he did not come up after until like 4am. And when he came, he was drunk and he passed out. We did not do anything, we went home much later. I asked him what happened and he said, the organizers had a different party plan, the after party was on the pent house….a was a S** party. I was shocked but I didn’t say anything. I asked him why didn’t he call me…he said he did not want me to join the party which means, me too would have been touched by other men.
Two days later, Uyi sends me a text message, that she does not blame me for marrying Frank….that she and two others, had S** with him at the party and that my husband gave them full package f*ck…that he was a bull….Uyi sent that text to get me angry cos she ended the text by saying, I hope you are not angry cos you know you too are a prostitute. That the way I got my husband is the same way I will loose him. I was infuriated but kept my calm. I know Uyi…this girl also uses juju…so I have to be careful. But now, I have seen that she wants my husband….if she organized a S** party and had S** with my husband….it means she is planning for me.
The only thing I could do was tell my husband about Uyi…..he listened and said I should not worry….that he does not believe in juju. I don’t blame him…he is very western. I know I should not complain if my husband is not faithful….I really do not expect him to be faithful cos he met me in the trenches after all….my only fear is what Uyi is planning for him….this girl is evil and the only thing she knows is juju. I have never done juju before…but it seems like that is the only thing I can do to keep Uyi away from my man. My husband can be with anyone else but not Uyi.
Uyi will destroy him…I have seen what she can do before to a married man…the man will forget and abandon his family and be following and sponsoring Uyi like a mumu….I don’t want her to do that….I love my husband….how do I keep Uyi away from him without using juju….or is that my only solution to this problem? I am confused….I know Uyi is scheming and I have to act fast…..I will do anything even if it means using juju…cos I dont know how to pray …I have never prayed to God in almost 15 years….plus how can God help me after the life that I have lived as an ashawo who married her client? Please advise me.
Anonymous
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That’s where you get it wrong,our God is plentous in mercy,he has been with you all this while just waiting for you to reach out to him,so that he can give you the blessings you deserve that even your friend don’t have a choice than to accept that God is with you,two wrongs can never make a right,you can’t use juju to fight juju cos one day when it backfire,you will not have a choice than to turn to God to save you,so why not turn to him now and ask him to help you when you still have the chance,you know you ve started on a wrong path,why not disgrace your friend by leaving her to her game while you continue to pray to God for mercy and help, God might even open your husband’s eyes quickly too ,so that he will know what’s about to come for him…..it’s only God’s blessing that can never add conditions or sorrow to it but the ones from humans you will keep fighting to keep till you die,seek ye first the kingdom of God and others shall be added unto you…..peace be unto you maam
David committed adultery with Bathsheba, sent her husband to the warfront with a letter to be killed, he was killed and despite all, God call him a man after his own heart because he was remorseful of his sins. Repent of all your sins, confess them to God, forsake and follow God, he will hear from you and you will know peace
Please go to God in prayers! He loves us all even while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us! It in only God that can help thwart and frustrate the plans your friend has! God will do it for you. He’s ever merciful, gracious, compassionate and our present help in time of need! Start now! Please! It is the hand of God on you that made you stop smoking, stop seeing men! God loves you, go to him in prayers, however and which way or language you decide to go to Him, He’ll hear and answer you.
You have also used juju during your time as a call girl,if you had not used it,I see no reason you should have mentioned it here.
What is juju? Does it really work? And if it works,will it work forever? My sister,this is the time to hold the bull by its horn,you have to learn how to pray and watch your husband’s movement closely.
Follow him to everywhere he goes to and always be at alert,don’t be tempted to drink or smoke,you have to protect your property,it doesn’t matter how you got it afterall he proposed marriage after hearing about your past.
Stop seeing or listening to Uyi,she is a bad person,she wants you to remain just like she is.
It is well with you my sister, investigate the source of your husband’s wealth and cause of his wife’s death, though you said cancer,that was what he told you,but you need to find out as well. Shine your eyes
Juju dey pass juju. What if her own juju is stronger than yours? Remember, she’s into the juju game before you. You can’t compare a fresher to an old timer. Why not go the one who’s stronger than any juju and the owner. The one who can render both juju and its priest powerless is God. With Him there’s no failure. Go to Him just as you are. He’s ever ready to receive you and make you his own. He died because of you and i. No one is too dirty for Him to cleanse. Feel guilty no more.
Peace.
Dear Poster,
God has been with you all these years. You left him but he didn’t leave you.
He blessed you and want you to serve him.
Here is an opportunity to serve God.
Do not be afraid. Trust God completely and go to him in prayers. Ask for forgiveness and ask God to be your defence and keep yout husband from evil schemes of Uyi.
God will answer you. Don’t give up even if it seems she is winning. Trust God completely.
Don’t do juju, it will backfire or make the man leave you when he finds out you did something diabolic to protect him from Uyi’s plans.
Your past doesn’t stop God from blessing you after all you stopped before meeting your husband.
Your prayers, knees in prayers will save you.
Again, do not do juju. Keep your hands clean and let God do the work for you.
My dear sister, go back to God in prayer, he will answer your prayer request…