True Life Story: See What Happened With My Future Mother In-law Evil Plan
Hi Jzhane,
I need your advise. I walked into my fiancé and his sister having an argument three weeks ago. It was such a heated quarrel that they did not even notice I entered into the parlor for a few seconds before they took note I was there. Soon as my boyfriend saw me, he was surprised. His sister, just said….good….she’s here…oya tell her by yourself. My fiancé just shoved her away and went inside the room.
Me, I was confused. I greeted sis Nancy and asked her what was going on. She told me that she is a woman like me and she does not support bad things cos it can be done to her. I asked her what she was talking about…she said go and ask your fiancé. I started to apologize to Nancy on my fiancé behalf cos I know my man has hot temper, only God knows what he has told his sister in anger.
Sis Nancy said, tell your fiancé to tell you….if not, I will tell you. So, I went to ask my fiancé and he said he is not in the mood to say anything. Later, sis Nancy sent me a short status message…it was the a shirtless short clip of my fiancé and his ex. This ex used the clip as her dp. Sis Nancy saw the status message and investigated, she found out that my fiance met up recently with his ex in their family house and from the look of the clip, they had been intimate.
What pained Nancy was that, the girl had the audacity to film themselves and use the clip for her status message. Nancy is a no sense girl, not minding its her brother. She told her brother off for what he did and warned him to cut off his ex cos I am a good girl and I do not deserve to be cheated on.
After I knew what happened….I asked my fiancé…he just held his head with his hands and said….I f*cked up…I made a mistake….it wont happen again. He said his mother set him up with his ex. The mom likes the ex more than me because they are from the same state while I am from a different state. He said his mom set it up by begging him to loan her money, that someone needed it for urgent knee surgery. So he sent his mom 1M for the surgery.
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The mom later fooled him to come home, that the family of the person they gave the 1M wants to thank him. So, he travelled home, only to discover that the so called person the mother wanted to help is his ex father. Yes, the man needed surgery and my ex came to her, to help her beg me for the money cos she knew he would not bulge to her. And cos the mom has soft spot for his ex, she set him up.
My fiancé said, he found out that the ex had come to visit his mom in their family house and was helping the mom. He said, the mom and ex made sure he had alot to drink and eat, and when he was not himself, the ex made advances at him. That he knows he f*cked up but he is angry with his mom but the mom is trying everything for them to come back but he has told his mom that he is done with his ex….that its me he wants.
According to him, his mom does not hate me but she just prefers that her son ends up with someone from the same state. I was so shocked at the story my man was telling me. I could not believe that the man I am planning to walk down the aisle with pin a few months, just cheated on me with his ex and his mom loves the ex more than me. My fiancé made his mom call me and she confessed she was the one behind it, that she did not mean any harm, that I should forgive her.
My fiancé’s mother called me cos he told her if she does not beg me, that he will cut her off. I told the mama and my fiancé that I am hurt and need sometime to think about this. I appreciate that both of them have tried to apologize to me but my fear is, how can the woman I hope to be my mother in-law one day do this to me just because of tribalism? I am from Plateau while my man is from South South, Bayelsa. The only person I trust in that family is Nancy.
Some of my friends are saying I should forgive and forget and focus on my man, after all, he has warned the mother but if this man can be set up by alcohol and his mom now that we are not married…if we marry…what else can she do? I already heard rumor that men from that state are promiscuous…I refused to believe that cos I thought my man was different. I was raised in a Christian home, my parents have been married for 37 years and my dad has never cheated on my mom for one day.
Honestly, I never suspected my fiance’s mother can do such a thing. I have taken her as my mother….cos I know she and her son are quite close as he is the only son. How do I even she truly set him up with his ex? what if he was the one who wanted to sleep with her and the mother is just covering up for him? Me and my fiancé met during my service posting to Bayelsa. I stayed back after service cos of him. I love him so much but I need to think very straight before I finally say I do to him…what do you think….should I forgive my man and his mother? Will he do it again? I need advise.
Anonymous
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I think you should find out the reason why he broke up with his ex
Pray, then follow your heart
Please forgive him and marry him,he and his mum have apologized ,just let go.
Your marriage is blessed,amen. You also have to be careful about his mum,you can see she is tribalistic and you are also dating her only son, so shine your eyes well well nne
I had similar experience with my fiancé and mother inlaw. My then fiancé and I travelled to his village (from Lagos to Edo state) to visit his mom for the first time, mama called her son’s ex to come as well. When it was past 10pm, mama told her son to see her off and he went away for over an hour. The next morning I packed my bags and left without saying a word to anyone.
The world asked me to forget and forgive, till date if not for my 3 beautiful kids, I regret forgiving him. Mama eventually married a second wife for him after we married.
He cheats and I later realized the person I thought was gentle and humble was a mummy’s boy.
So use your tongue to count your teeth.
It is well dear
Left to me, forgive him but move on with your life. If his mum doesn’t wholeheartedly want you, she might end up making your married life hell later on.
I don’t encourage anyone to marry into a family where he or she is not truly welcomed.
I’ll also advise you pray about it and receive direction on the next step to take.
I dont think it will end well. This could be a set up. after the wedding, you willl see worse things. Just forgive them but take a break from the relationship.