True Life Story: What Did My Boss Mean When He said This To Me?? Please Advice!

True Life Story: What Did My Boss Mean When He said This To Me?? Please Advice!

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Thanks for the good work ma please help me to post this and hide my I’D.

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I graduated last year from school currently serving and am finding it difficult to get connections to a good jobs in Nigeria… All my dreams and desire is to work in a well recognized organization in Nigeria like Nnpc, faan, firs and so on but non is coming forth yet….

Am from a poor background to be sincere and things are not going really fine, I wish to change the story of my family even if am not the first child of the family. Am a lady of 24 yrs and I have a boyfriend he is 28 yrs old we have been dating for the past 3 yrs now he loves me so much and I love him so much too, he is not that financially buoyant yet because he just got a job not quite long….

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I noticed he has began to put me in his future plans and planning to come for introduction by next year but I have been holding back and shying away because I Don’t really want him to know much about my background.

Now, where I need advice is here, there’s this my boss I once worked with before I got admission to school he travelled out of the country even before I left for school so when I was in school he remembered me and my good works well done and decided to assist me with some money while I was in school I think that was my final year in school….

Presently he is asking me about life and I told him Nigeria have been tough that I have not been able to secure any good job yet so he felt pity for me looking back to my background and he thought of bringing me abroad to come and work meanwhile his family are here doing fine.

So started to tell me that if I want to come abroad that I should Bear it at the back of my mind that firstly, am not getting married over there that ladies hardly get married there.. secondly I will come through land and stop in the neighboring country and then he will come and pick me up from there and that thirdly, he wanted to help someone else here in Nigeria who even promise to marry him when she gets there but he decided not to take her but to take me instead so therefore when I come, that I should not disappoint him else he will deploy me back to Nigeria.

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Now it is this aspect of “when you come Don’t disappoint me” aspect I Don’t understand yet. When I told my boyfriend about it he said I should not go anywhere that the help coming from the man is not a genuine one that we will be fine in Nigeria here but my boyfriend doesn’t really know the real condition of my family and I Don’t want to tell him or bother him with my problems because he’s still a struggling Young guy….

I am already having the thought of going over there to hustle regardless of my marital life in other for me to bring out my family out of poverty that’s just my aim, maybe this might be my only opportunity to travel out I Don’t know….

Secondly am scared I might loose my boyfriend the love of my life if I should go! Right now am totally confused, Don’t know what to do…. If only I can get a good job here in Nigeria. Please I need your advice no insult please… Thank you all, God bless you.

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