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True Story: I Ended A Short Fling With My Employee But He Is Still Trying To Seduce Me


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True Story: I Ended A Short Fling With My Employee But He Is Still Trying To Seduce Me

Hello Lively Stones,

This is a huge confession for me, I pray no one recognizes me from this but I have to confess what I did because I feel like, it has come back to haunt me and I am about to loose my mind. I am a 45 year old woman, married for 19 years. My marriage has not been without challenges, in fact, there has been many challenges. I had a mid life crises last year and it resulted in a short fling with a young employee.

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About five years ago, I decided to turn my life around because my children were now grown, my husband no longer finds me attractive because I was fat from having children and I was a full time house wife for 10 years. So, I trained and opened a beauty Centre (hair styling, make up, body cream,nails,unis3x barbing salon and a gym). My business was very successful under 2 years.

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Then I decided to get my body done. I had a BBL and tummy tuck. My body became banging. I became very attractive and my self confidence was restored. To keep in shapes, I worked out alot in the gym. Being desired again, was exciting for me. I mistakenly had s3x with one of my gym trainers (lets call him CY).

I mean, he is young and dangerous feeling that a young man is attracted to me, made me loose my senses. It was a short fling for like two and a half months but we did some really dangerous things like taping our s3x sometimes. I was always horny and this guy was turning my head like crazy. I thought I was going to hell fire straight for the things we did.

Thank God, God saved my life. My husband began to desire me again. He wanted us to work on our marriage and things began to change.  I had to end the affair with the gym guy. We talked, I apologized if I led him on. I wanted to give him money to move on so it wont be awkward working together after the affair but he promised me it was ok that I have nothing to fear cos for him, its just for fun and money cos he is a young hustling guy. That happened early last year.

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Things gradually began to get normal for me. I hardly even saw CY cos I got a gym manager to manage the gym and I hardly went there again, so we wouldn’t see each other. After her youth service, my husband’s younger sister, Laila moved in with us.

Laila decided to work in my beauty Centre while she was scouting for a job. Laila is also a fitness enthusiastic and she fit right into the business. The gym manager suddenly got another job so I had to  ask Laila to assume the manager position since she already knew the business well.

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One day, I wanted to make my rounds like I usually do from time to time, to take stock of the business and make sure everything my workers record is true, I came into the gym knowing it would be scanty cos at that time, most people would not be in the gym. It was middle of the day,  the gym is usually full in the morning and evenings majorly.

So, that day, I went straight to the manager’s office to call Laila and as I walked into her office, Laila f*cking CY. They were so engrossed that they didn’t even notice someone walked in on them.

When they finally did, I excused myself. Of course, Laila later ran after me, apologizing and begging me. I was mad at her cos she was f*cking inside the office with an employee and that behaviour should not be tolerated. She promised me it wouldn’t happen again so I forgave her.

Deep within me, I was more scared that Laila hooking up with CY, someone I also f*cked would be bad if it ever came out. I was very anxious. CY is a fine boy, with ribbed muscles, its easy for girls to fall over him. I called CY and cautioned him, that his actions could expose us.  CY told me he really like Laila and that he wants to have a relationship with her. That made me very afraid and I thought of firing him, infact, I threatened him.

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This stupid guy then said if I fired him, he would tell Laila about us. I was like, no one would believe him cos it would be his word against mine and he said people would believe when eh shows them the s3x tape. My god…I forgot about that…with CY, I used to make s3x tapes when we f*cked so I could masturbate to them later. But I always deleted the videos. I only keep one or two which I have carefully protected with heavy password.

So, now, maybe CY has a video that we didn’t delete, I do not know for sure. I told him that blackmail would not work cos I would arrest him if he did it. CY assured me that no one would see the videos if I do not stand in his way to get Laila. I had to give them my blessings. They made their relationship public but the problem now is, CY now sometimes spends the night with Laila in our house and the thought of them  f*cking is driving me crazy.

So, crazy that the I masturbate at the thought of CY and Laila having s3x.  CY is trying to tempt me, to seduce me again. I have caught him looking at me lustfully when no was was looking. Its like I am no longer free in my house anytime he is around. This boy knows I use the gym in my house and he managed to find himself in the gym just about the time I was doing my workout in the house. As I tried to leave, he smacked my bum.

I felt like strangling him for doing that cos it has become clear what his game is. So, I had to tell Laila to stop allowing CY spend the night in our house. The stupid girl reported me to my husband, asking him to help her get an apartment because I am making things difficult for her because I do not like her boyfriend.

My husband had the nerve to ask me to stop behaving as if I am jealous because the youngsters are enjoying themselves. That the CY boy looks responsible, so I should leave them alone. If only they knew how dangerous this boy is. S3x with this boy is so good, he is well endowed and a beast in these things, Laila too has lost her mind. I pray she is not making s3x tapes with him too.

Now, I am being careful because I think my reaction to this whole situation might start making people suspicious. But its like I am walking on egg shells. I am jumpy, nervous and scared, all the time. I really feel so afraid that something might happen and everything will be exposed with this guy hanging out Laila and around our house.

I only wish I can get the video evidence from CY….that would really put my heart to rest, just in case anything happens, there will be no evidence. How do I get that video out of CY so that I can fire him? I know I messed up but I am trying not to mess up again so please help me. Any suggestions please?


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  1. Madam you are not a serious person,from what I just read now,it shows you are so loose. Why allowing Laila to bring CY into your house in the first place?

    Anyways, no need to talk too much,you better confess, whether CY has the sex tape or not,you better tell your husband,if the worse wants to happen now,let it better happen.

    If not you will just kill yourself one day ooo,this CY will deal with you mercilessly,the earlier you tell your husband before he gets to find out outside the better for you.

    The boy is a beast on bed and you are a what? Married woman doing nonsense,what goes around comes around,shebi you don see as e dey go.

    Madam confess now,confess this minute,don’t wait oooo,see your marriage in danger if you don’t tell your husband oooo,the Lord is your muscle.

  2. You messed up…big time
    Even had your sex filmed…
    Why would your sis in law bring a man home for sleep overs in the house she doesn’t own.
    I thought it should be the other way round.
    I can see a whole lot of loose morals running around your family (sorry to say)

    It’s also obvious Gym guy is useless and slothful and devious and enjoys using women has pawns in his dirty game,he has no feeling for either you or Laila.
    He most likely hit on Laila cos she’s close to you..he wants you to feel jealous and fight your sis in law over him.
    He basically wants to humiliate you, because soon your jealousy would draw attention and everything would blow over in public.

    Laila is making a big mistake too… letting her body gain control over her head.
    You are both immaterial to him and he wouldn’t hesitate to spill your secrets to your husband and ruin you.
    After all he has nothing to lose
    Option one :You ask the Lord for forgiveness sincerely and beg him for strength to do things right then tell your secret to your hubby..(how he reacts is another issue,he either make up or break up)

    Option two: You wait till Gym guy exposes you in a very very dirty manner, ruining your marriage, business, children’s high thought of you.

    Option one is the only option
    Option two is the result of not following option one!
    May the Lord Jesus direct your steps!

  3. Dear poster, what you did is wrong, I understand the fear of telling your husband, can I tell you something, CY will still come for you, this time he will say if you don’t let him have you, he will expose you,…so if it gets to that point what will you do? Will you continue giving him yourself? The only option is to come out clean….if the videos are on his phone/system don’t you think Laila would find out your secret soonest……the truth is CY doesn’t have the sextape, he’s just saying that to blackmail you……….but please come out clean for your own good before the matter gets out of hands…peace dear…


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