Hi,
Keep me anonymous. I need counsel. I know I made a terrible mistake but I have tried every thing I know to change things but nothing so far. I am sure you are wondering what I am talking about?
Well, my side chick may have placed a curse on me. (maybe juju). I am a 31 year old male. I met my girlfriend a year and a half ago. Nice and beautiful girl. Met her through a colleague. I never really dig relationships with no intimacy but I like this girl so much that when she said no s*x before marriage,I said yes.
For so long that we have been dating,I have tried to get her to change her mind about the no intimacy but she seemed adamant on it. I told myself it was worth the wait. I was going to marry her. She deserved it. She is the smartest and most beautiful and most kind hearted girl I know.
My fellas do not believe nothing has happened between us. I cant believe it too myself. I cant wait to marry her. We talked about it. Its this year. But like a dumb dude that I am,I allowed myself to be tempted by some girl o. We met on Instagram,flirted. I figured we could hook up one or two times,just to was the urge you know.
No strings attached. I tried to make sure she was not expecting anything. I was paying her to keep her mouth shut but I guess I was playing with fire without knowing. I made sure we met in only her place or at a hotel. After a while,she started she wanted to know my place.
She asked if I had a girlfriend,that I was trying to keep our affair from my girlfriend. I did not tell her anything but she figured I had a serious girl. So I stopped going to her place for fear of being taped. I made sure we met in a hotel I chose myself for precautions.
As lock down started,we could not meet in the hotel,she wanted to come to mine or hers. I told her no. But a seductress and a temptress that she is,we risked it and met at a hotel close to my place. The last time we met,she seemed like she was possessed. Told me she was in love with me.
I told her that was not possible. No strings attached remember. She went all emotional and said if she cant have me,no other woman can. I asked her what she meant by that? Was she threatening to harm me? All she said was : you belong to me now. I laughed at her and thought in my mind,its time to stop this,looks like its getting more and more serious.
That was like 3 weeks ago. Since then,I noticed a weakness around my manhood. I have not experienced a hard on for the last 3 weeks. But this girl has been buzzing my phone but I ignored her. She sent a text: you cannot have s*x with any other woman in your life except me…
Even though I am not having s*x with anyone now,I am truly worried that I have not even experienced the early morning type of hard on that most guys experience. I have been like this for 3 weeks and I am extremely worried. I asked if she did anything to me,she laughed an evil laugh and said: its not rising again abi…it will never rise again until it sees me?
Could this be real? What did I get myself into? I have been begging her….I have gone to the pharmacy and been given drugs. They say it might be an STD. No change since. I am actually very scared. I do not know what else to do and I am also scared of telling anyone even my pastor cos then I will be exposed.
What can I do please…I have been thinking of going to the hospital as soon as the lock down is over but I am so worried…has anyone ever experienced this before…how do I get myself out of this mess?
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Dear Brother , for you to get the help you need , you have no option than to talk to your pastor so he help you out other wise, it may get worse.
I’ll advise u tell someone if no one at all at least your pastor, there could be a way out…I trust that
Very true
You need to talk to your pastor and open up to your girl.
Guys of these days! Always allowing s*xual desires rule! No self control nor moderation again! I implore you to seek God’s face earnestly and if you have a good spiritual leader, you can as well tell he/she so as to help you pray about this issue! Girls of these days are desperate and mean for marriage. Do not fall for her threat nor go back to her. They’re all the tactics the enemy uses to lure and keep us in his grip to sin against God always. If you’re a Christian, give your life to Christ wholly. Thank you
Pls talk to ur pastor about it ooooooooo
You have to confess and go for deliverance o my brother.
Uncle! That lady has done something to you! I can relate to this issue, my Sissy’s roomie back in the uni did it to her bf but the guy didn’t take it likely. He only got an erection whenever they’re together but when he’s with other girls his Johnny sleeps. Your problem is not medical related, go to her house threaten to expose her if she doesn’t undo whatever she did to you.
Keep quiet only @ your won peril!
Don’t let her ruin your life with your vulnerability.
Try to see if you can get arouse seeing a girl’s nakedness if not go for medical check-up
You need to confess to your pastor first, healing starts by acknowledging your errors, then confessing them and making restitution.
Now that you’ve acknowledged your errors, you need to confess to someone who can help you probably your pastor
Please talk to your pastor as soon as possible
You need serious prayer my bro….find solution as soon as possible.
I think everybody has said it all. You need to talk to your pastor about the situation. Whether it is medical or spiritual, you don’t know what type of power or demon that girl possesses. Apart from your hard on problem, you don’t know if she had also put something else into you like misfortune etc. So you have to go for spiritual deliverance and cleanliness.
I hope you learn from this lesson.
Young man,
Do these:
1. Ask God to forgive you and heal you
2. Get to a hospital and get examined by a doctor. Perhaps they can recommend some treatment.
3.Cut off that lady and sin no more. Rededicate your life to God
What you need is a miracle…seek it with faith and prayers.
God bless
brother, you have to talk to your pastor to see what was happening in you also try and be praying and be asking her for forgiveness God’s willing she might forgive. I think she’s not a human being
Bros…. You need to seek God’s mercy, discuss everything with your pastor and stop every communication with the lady
First of all. Go to the hospital for proper tests and check ups. The see a pastor. Repent and ask God for forgiveness. Cut all connections with her and pray fervently. God would have mercy on you I believe
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