Good day ma,
I need your advise on this matter. I have been married for 5 years now. Ever since I got married, I have been having issues with my mother in-law. Well,let’s just say that my mother in-law and my husband are very close and she always see it like I am trying to come in between them which I am not.
My husband was doing very well. He had properties and all but soon as we got married,things took a different turn and it is as if,they only got worse and worse.
3 years ago, I fell sick. I was so sick and bedridden for almost 3 months. All tests carried out showed nothing was medically wrong with me. I was so sick that I could not speak for days. In my church,they saw visions that a woman was behind all these. I was asked if I offended any woman …I said no.
As a result of this,I had to start going from church to church. And every church, I was told my mother in-law was behind my sickness. Even sometimes,I will be on my own,and the someone who does not even know me before,will send me a vision about my mother in-law.All of these,I never shared with my husband. All I did,was pray with my family.
I eventually got well. I thank God for my life. My husband stood beside me all through the sickness period. Thereafter,I got information from various people that my mother inlaw was putting charms in some of my husband’s properties. It was actually the tenants who called me to tell me these.
With all these information,I still kept quiet,not telling my husband anything. Until a week ago. I think one of the tenants of one of our properties called my husband to also inform him of his mother’s action of placing charms in the building.
My husband told me what the tenant said and that gave me the opportunity to tell him about all I have been told about his mother. I told him I was aware of the charms placed in several of his properties,I told him of the visions I was given about his mother.
I only opened up to him because he first told me what he heard. Instead,he got so angry and began to quarrel with me. He defended his mother and stormed out of the house in anger.
Later on,when he got back,I tried to apologize but he refused to answer me. He has been giving me the silent treatment since that time. Every time we have a misunderstanding, after the argument,he will just keep silent.
Every time,I am the one apologizing just for peace to reign. I have told him that we need to work on our communication. I am not perfect,so also is he. When he is angry,he curses me with so many heavy curses. When he starts,I don’t even know how to respond..
I found out that he had reported me to his mother. And I am sure he had said some things that will paint me in a very bad light. How do I continue to be happy in this marriage with what I know about his mother? He clearly will always take his mother’s side. I am not at ease..I am unhappy…
I need your advise. How do I go about this?
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You need to start praying for your mother-in-law as well as your husband and marriage. Don’t quarrel with him, be the best wife you can be, try to get close to her and ask the Holy Spirit for guidance. All will be well!
Just pray that God should visit him and open his eyes. I have seen a case like this, but when God eventually opened the man’s eyes, he saw exactly the truth about his mother. Now, both husband and wife are living happily.
Hello dear,
I have quite a lot to say to you but let me summarize:
First,your marriage can be saved and you can have a happy marriage even after this.
You need to realize that this type of challenge is a spiritual one and the only way to handle it is spiritually.
Whether or not,your mother in law is diabolical should not deter you….if you are a born again child of God, you are already a victor.
What you need to do is change your strategy. You need to fight this dark influence on your marriage by prayers and love.
Someone said,the devil cannot fight the power of love.
First, you need to go on your knees and pray for your home,your marriage,your husband and your mother in law.
Pray that God will take absolute control of the situation.You can actually add fasting to your prayers. You can also ask a few people to join you in prayer of agreement.
Then, you need to show your husband that you lobe him and his mother irrespective of whatever you suspect or know that she is.
One thing about spiritual attack is that the devil maybe using your mother in-law’s face for the attack but she is not the real person behind the attack. So,you face the spirit behind the attacker.
Next thing to do is apologize to your mother inlaw. Make an excuse saying you never meant any harm to her. Then begin to make deliberate efforts to make her your ally. Buy her gifts…call her regularly…make her feel comfortable around you.
Meanwhile, you are praying and its not a one time prayer. This might take a while.
This is your strategy: its the Trojan horse strategy. Give the enemy a perception that you mean no harm…that you love them..that you want peace….meanwhile..you are firing all their arrows with prayers and love. Genuine love.
Preach to them..speak God’s word…and never allow fear or any vision to make you fearful. Remember, the one that is with you is greater than the one that is with them and that is God…God is with you and no one can harm you.
Be strong and very courageous and be very prayerful…let your faith prevail over this. God is with you and we are praying with you too.
God bless you.
This is spiritual warfare. Have you given your life to Jesus? If no, start from there and look for any Spirit filled church around you to attend so you can get support for prayer,
You need to interceed for your home to be set free from the devices of the wicked.
This is spiritual. Attack it as such. You need to be prayerful and be the best you can. Hope for the best