True Life Story: He Is Married But l Still Love Him-Pt 2
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I ran into Ahmed again early last year. He had just returned from a naval course abroad. And he had visited our house to greet his old mentor; my dad.
I couldn’t believe my eyes when l saw him.
“Good evening, uncle.”
“Is that Angel?” he exclaimed with astonishment in his voice.
“Yes uncle, it’s me.”
“You have changed o. I can’t believe that my baby has turned into such a beautiful woman,” the surprise was still on his face.
“Uncle Ahmed stop teasing me, l am still your little girl,” l answered.
He was looking so good in his Navy uniform. Something told me that this man was going to be my husband no matter what.
Ahmed continued coming to our house. Sometimes, he would visit with his very young wife, Fatima, who turned out to be a very nice woman. She is a teacher in a posh primary school. And they had two beautiful kids. Sometimes l would visit them in their house. I would help to cook and play with the kids.
Ahmed and l started dating seriously almost immediately after our second meeting. He asked me out for a dinner date one Friday evening like that, and l wasted no time at all in accepting, and the rest is history. Ahmed didn’t even need to waste much time and energy in winning over my love.
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I knew that the Love had always been there in me, since l was a kid. My Love for Ahmed was like a fire burning inside me. All he needed to do was to rekindle that fire. And that didn’t even take him much time or energy at all. I mean like, everything just fell into place right from that our first night out. And we became inseparable.
And not like Ahmed is too old for me. He’s just 38 and l’m 22. His wife, Fatima is even just two years older than me. But what does that matter? Age is just a number. And Love does not care about age. Love is something that moves away any impediments.
I didn’t know how my parents found out about my new relationship with Ahmed. But being a military man, my dad had always had this smart way of finding things out on his own, and monitoring people, even without their knowing that he was monitoring them. Perhaps that was why he had such a successful career in the military. They did find out about us, and their attitude towards this new relationship was not surprising to say the least. They h*ted the very idea of it. I mean like, it brought out the very worst in them.
Even without being told, I know that what my parents h*te the most about my relationship with Ahmed is the fact that he’s a Fulani Muslim from Sokoto, while we are Igbo Christians from lmo State. My father forbade me from seeing Ahmed again, or risk his wrath. But you know how the human mind operates, once you have been forbidden from tasting any thing, that is when the desire to have that thing becomes irresistible. I am no
My Love for Ahmed is compounded by the fact that his wife, Fatima approves of his intentions to marry me as his second wife. It all boils down to the fact that as a Fulani girl, she’s been brought up to accept such situations. Infact, she sees me as a co-wife already, so much so that sometimes she allows me to cook for the whole family, and even leave her kids alone with me whenever she’s leaving the house.
Ahmed and l have made plans to marry later this year. But my parents are still not having none of that. Infact, just last two months my father beat me so terribly and threw me out of the house, when he learnt that l was still seeing Ahmed.
They hurt and humiliated me so much. Infact, l’m now basically an outcast away from my family. Even my two brothers and sister seem to be avoiding me lately.
My parents even went as far as severing my monthly allowances. I’m in my final year at school now, but all my dad did was to only pay for my tuition and hostel fees, and that was all. It is Ahmed that has been taking care of my feeding allowances and pocket-money for a while now.
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My parents just want me to suffer so much, so that l will come running back to them. But what they don’t know is that Ahmed and l have made a blood pact to marry! We have made a blood pact that nothing on Earth would separate us from marrying each other.
Today l am Ahmed’s mistress, but nothing on Earth will stop me from becoming his wife soon.
But please l still need advice from the elders here. Am l wrong in loving an older man from another tribe, different from mine? And how should l convince my parents to accept my relationship with Ahmed?
I need answers please!
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My dear you are completely wrong to go against your parents, they have foreseen what you can’t! I’m from the north and this is what we see almost every time here, Our Christian girls who got blinded by love ends up in regrets after marrying a Muslim. Inter tribal marriages works a better than religion.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not trying to discriminate any religion here! But what I’m saying, it’s sweet at first but later it becomes sour. Though we have seen successful inter religious marriages but its like 3/10. Most especially if the other parties parents are against it.
Please dear, let ahamed and his family be, and allow God to bring urs. It’s painful to see how hurt your parents are after everything they have done to you, they don’t deserve such sleepless nights you are giving them now.
Dear young poster,you don’t need advice . You have already made up your mind,you have made a blood pact, nothing can separate you and Ahmed not even your parents so why do you need advice or answers.
An ear that refuses to listen will one day be cut of with the head,tread with caution my dear.
Bye
Where are the elders in the house o. This one pass me .
Just be ready to deal with whatever comes your way. Noone is in support of you.
I pray your eyes will open soon enough.
Remember love is not enough and you are still very young
Lovely lady, I pray that the veil over your eyes and mind be lifted in JESUS name and that the blood covenant you entered with Ahmed be broken by the blood of Jesus.
Please read 2 Corinthians 6:14.
Would you mind if Ahmed takes 2 more wives down the line?
‘Honour thy father and thy mother, that it may be well with thee, and that thou mayest live long on the good land, which the Lord thy God gives to thee.’ Exo 20:12
When life happens, you will realise how much you need your family.
God loves you.
How do you feel for you to marry someone tomorrow and you find out the person is seeing another woman. What goes around comes around. As long as you refuse to leave married man alone, yours won’t come. You are still young, be patient and God fearing. Yours will come in the near future