True Life Story: I Love My Girlfriend But She Does Not Thrill Me Anymore
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost four years. We graduated together and she went to (service) NYSC before me. Then I was doing some menial job in Lagos to make ends meet.
During her stay in the NYSC camp, she used to tell me how horny she feels. When they left the camp, she wanted to come and meet me in Lagos, but since I was staying with a friend, the place won’t be convenient for her and I had to discourage from coming. Though we agreed that I would meet her where she was posted to. I had to help her but some stuffs she’d be needing since the school she was posted to gave her accommodation. Cylinder, foodstuffs and utensils. Around June, I started noticing some changes in terms of communication and her availability.
Since I didn’t have any evidence to confront her, I kept quiet but I knew something was not right.
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She called me one day that she’s not doing long distance relationship, it’s not helping her. I reminded her that we stayed 9 months during COVID-19, why this sudden change? This barely 3 months since we saw each other ( April).
I told her to give me some time so that we can meet up. She declined that I shouldn’t bother. I insisted but she threatened to block me. I told her that whosever she’s with is not worth the years we were together.
She latter told me that she is dating someone else and that was sorry about everything. That things are tough for her parents she needs to raise money for them and I can’t help. I felt very bad that I couldn’t help but why did she have to do this?
I nearly commit suicide. I was heartbroken and I felt like running to the road so I can just die. I wanted to call her mom and talk to her but I didn’t see it necessary because she’s not my wife. I spoke to her elder sister, who in turn spoke to her mom and they were all sorry for and that I should try to forgive and move on.
I didn’t have anyone to talk to except her roommate back then in the school. Before they became roommate, we were all friends together even before I started dating her, I had met her friend/roommate first.
I started asking her friend out, she didn’t say yes or no. We were still in the talking phase.
After 3 months that she left me, she started calling. Of course I refused to pick her calls. She left a Whatsapp message for me that if I’m not dating anyone now we should get back, that she couldn’t love her now ex.
Because I still loved her, I gave her the chance to make up. We started dating again but I feel no emotion for her.
Like even if she’s naked, I don’t have an erection.
The worst thing is that the guy infected her with genital warts. Within the 3 months they dated, they had s3x almost every day. It took me almost 6 months before I had s3x with her
Recently, she has this male corper friend she talk to and she said that she doesn’t want the guy to know that she’s in a relationship. But they hang out most times and she doesn’t answer my calls when they’re together. I don’t know what to believe anymore.
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We plan to make things work out between us but the trust is already broken.
The problem now is I lost total trust in her. Even though I still have a soft spot for her, I feel like I’m going to not just cheat on her in the future, I’m going to sleep around to make her feel the pain I went through.
I don’t know if I should honestly let her go.
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Ur first mistake never beg a woman who wants to leave u ,so many times before a woman either married or unmarried say she is no more interested ,it is usually because she has lost interest some months ,some weeks back u only fail to notice it ,if u were observant enough u would noticed the subtly lost of interest she is showing u ,so begging her is an error why because she has move on ,but u are trying to drag her back to u
Imagine someone who has lost interest in you as a person ,only for u to be begging the person to stay ,what other way than proving to her u are a low worth individuals ,she’s not more interested u are begging ,
What are u then posing to her ,she worth more than u and it is obvious Ur life is not going to be alright because she left u
As long as u didn’t hurt her ,she didn’t warn u about something and u fail to take correction ,if her reason is simply nothing than she believes she deserves another guy or lover or another passion , respect Ur self enough to leave her or let her go
Another big blunder u made ,is accepting her back this is another way u prove to her she was right to leave u for another guy
She left u for another man ,now things have gone south for her over there ,the best low class man she could think of is u from her eyes ,and since u are a 2nd choice in her eyes she would only wait till she finds another better guy till she leaves again
What ever u did is dangerous ,imagine she had contacted STDs / hiv , guess what u would be the best recipient
And for what ?? U accepted her back so in everybody’s perspective she is even doing u a favour coming back to u
And like I do proselytise ,never take back a cheating person ,tongues were sent wagging even the bible forbids it because if the dangers involved let them move on ,so what more do they want to believe
Women have more respect for men who are willing to walk away than men who are willing to continue swallowing the disrespect of course if u have a sister or mother talk to her ,she would tell u this truth ,what other way to disrespect u as a man than to cheat on u or replace u and still have the guts to come back
Don’t u have taste as a man ?? what u should have done is replacement
I know it is not easy but it is worth it ,infact there is high chances that u would get a better woman outside
Why ??
U are coming out of Ur last relationship with more experience and more knowledge , maturity with women that the next lady would be happy to enjoy from u
A man with experience is view in respect than a man with low experience in ladies eye
And lastly ,this confirms what I Keep saying she doesn’t want the nysc guy to know she is in a relationship, because she is not proud to call u her own
If she was I tell u ,once another guy ask her out she would quickly give them the red alert that she is in relationship with someone ,the fact that she is still keeping it from another guy is because she feel the guy is a potential suitor to her ,no wonder she doesn’t pick Ur call ,she is not happy to talk to u in his presence
And yes u cause it from the day u accepted her back ,u register Ur name as a second class candidate or suitor to her ,no wonder she is still in one way looking for a replacement
A woman who isn’t happy or proud to declare she is in a relationship with u or she has a guy which is u ,is not Ur girlfriend but another lady u think u are dating
Follow Ur instinct ,the fact u are not emotionally entangle or feel she is attractive enough is just Ur inner man telling u she doesn’t deserve u ,u deserve better
So many women deserve Ur love ,they are out there they would give u the treatment u deserve ,but then u have to leave Ur Egypt to get to them
I say everything to u because I take u as a family , wouldn’t do less if u were not
Well, the earlier you leave her ,the better for you. You can never have trust in her. You never forget the past no matter how much you forgive her. Let her be .though it sounds a bit difficult bcoz you have a emotions, you have a soft spot and all but you just have to
Baba run before she go dry you up finish make hay while there’s still sun shining she has returned to finish you kpatata lock that mumu button throw it away get a clean and new babe also make amends in areas that are necessary in your future relationship God help you
Dear poster,let her go,allow her to go,let her find her way.
A word is enough for the wise,I move with immediate alacrity
Udo!
You will learn the painful way. I don’t get why men act like slaves to women. This is pathetic low self esteem