True Life Story: Man Questions His Wife After Painful Secret Revealed
Dear Lively Stones,
My wife of eight years, the mother of my three lovely children is my best friend, I cannot imagine my life without her. So, you can imagine the shock I am going through right now…I have never doubted my wife for one minute since we dated and got married but right now…there is an issue. The issue started last week.
My wife’s best friend and my wife have been friends since secondary school days. They were both in the same boarding school. They are so close, that everyone think they are sisters. When I was dating my wife, Doris (not real name), her friend Ivy was always there for both of us. When we quarreled or needed advise. Infact, Ivy is my twins god mother. Every secret in my marriage, I am sure Ivy is aware cos she and my wife are gist and gossip partners too.
So Ivy was in our house last Saturday. Spent most of the day with us. Me and the kids decided not to bother mummy since her friend was around and they wanted to have some girl time. Infact, Ivy’s son was with us that day. We all had lunch together and I went to watch a movie on my laptop while the kids were watching TV in the living room. My wife and Ivy went to the guest room to talk…I knew the gist must be hot and I knew my wife will gist me later, so I left both of them alone.
Well, I was watching my movie but one of my wife’s customer called to say they have been trying to get my wife but she was not picking up. And this customer is a bug one. My wife is into import of luxury goods and her customers are big time client. My no is also on my wife’s website,so am sure that is how the customer got my no. So, I took the phone to go give to my wife but I was very quiet walking to the guest room to my wife cos I thought I would prank them.
So I tip toed to the room and opened the door very quietly….and when I got inside….what I saw made me almost loose my speech. My wife and Ivy were engaged in kissing and fingering S**ual acts. They were moaning and eyes closed….they did not even notice me….I could barely mutter my wife’s name….Dorcas….what are you doing? She opened her eyes and then both of them became aware of me being in their presence. They jumped and started to behave weirdly.
Then I left both of them and back to my room. My wife ran after me and she started trying to explain….that they were just fooling around, that what I saw was not real. I asked her to tell Ivy to leave my house and never come back. Ivy and her son left. My wife kept explaining but I could not respond to her cos I was afraid to ask her the only important question, which is: so you are a lesbian?
Other questions I wanted to ask, I already knew the answer….and that is how long they have been doing this….of course must have been since college cos they have been that close. And yet, these two women are married to men and have children and they have been lovers right under our noses…..I held my head and it felt like it was going to explode. I took my car keys and drove off. I spent the night in a hotel that day. My wife kept calling and begging me to to her.
The next day, I came home and my wife continued to beg me. I asked her why she deceived me to marry a lesbian and she kept saying she is not a lesbian, that Ivy is the one that is a lesbian. And Ivy has a crush on her but they have never done anything until that day when I saw them. She said, Ivy was just playing with her and she got carried away. That she cannot lie to me. She began to swear with the children and I told her to stop it.
This whole situation is messing with my head….like its making me feel I do not really know the woman I call my wife….I have trust issues now…I cant even imagine my wife cheating with another man talkless of a woman. I feel she is not telling me the entire truth….cos for Ivy to have been her best friend of over 30 years, she has been close….then they must be lovers….so in that case….who am I to my wife….am I just a disguise for her real self? Maybe me and Ivy’s husband are just a cover up or a sperm donor to these lesbian women to have children.
I have raged and vented to God and my wife….I have not been able to look her in the eyes….talkless of touching her. My heart is broken ….my wife thinks we need counselling to save our marriage…but for the most…will counselling change the fact that I caught my wife and her best friend of 30 years having S** in my own house? How do I reconcile with the fact that the mother of my children is a lesbian?
My wife keeps denying that she is a lesbian….but I don’t believe her one bit…and even the truth ….I do not think I can handle it. How do I move forward without loosing my wife, the love of my life….this is so not fair…why why why…why did I fall in love with such a woman…was everything about our marriage a liar? I need help and advise to know what to do next?
Anonymous
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Please forgive her and let go.
It is so unfortunate that you had to find out about this.
It is not gonna be easy but for the sake of the children please forgive her and live in peace.
Ivy must not be seen anywhere around your house or wife.
It is well
forgive what , @Marylyn Livestory why are u doing this just imagine forgive a lesbian , Chineke just because she is a woman , tufiakwa ! God forbid
man I sincerely feel for u so passionately ur story was the topic of my discussion with someone special yesterday , u see it would amazed u but a lot of women are into lesbianism , I can swear to u on that , it all started from school university , all this same-S.e.x school and the rest , it gives people the platform for those things to endure .
u see woman are emotional creature , and even if a fellow woman can give the emotional support to another woman , there is a possibility that the woman might fall in love with a fellow woman, homoS.e.xuality is something that has darpen our society , if not that so of us were straight with our desire who knows what would have become of us , a guy asking a guy out I was shocked if someone had told me i might not have believe , but this homoS.e.xuals have become so bold and audacious that they can even ask someone out .
ur wife as been in it , it did not just start , she’s lying , how was she caught in the moment ? passionately kissing her till the extent of fingering her that is an expert not a learner , how do u say that kind of thing just started , it is a big lie .
call ur wife’s friend talk to her , that u would love to see her u feel guilty about the whole incident that day , when u finally meet her ask that woman since when they have been engaging in such act , if she doesn’t open up , tell her that ur wife told u they have been in it for three years but u just wanted to ask , I tell u , ur wife lesbian partner would begin to tell u the truth because u provoke something in her with that question
ur wife is not saying the whole truth , I said this with due respect putting into consideration she is the mother of ur children , if she knew her friend was a lesbian why did she allow her in ur room , why didn’t she tell u , why would she keep the story of her lesbian Friend from u .
u see the act as been going on , but ur wife as been telling u the story she wants u to believe
that is why she can look straight at u to lie . homoS.e.xuality is a terrible thing , i remember years back I went to work in an estate for my company then , and that time I met a guy who asked me out , I was shocked like this guy is quite audacious , but yes he had a girlfriend but the desire can’t be salved by having an heteroS.e.xual partner .
too bad man , but until she tells u the whole truth u can’t help her .this is unbelievable but it is happening the homoS.e.xuality people are fighting hard for people wife and husband .
a woman lusting after another woman , a man loving and desiring S.e.x with another man .
if she does not tell u the truth , please she should excuse u , because ur house is not safe , ur children too just imagine the damage that would have been done to ur daughter if she had seen that kind of thing .
man u need space if possible with ur children , if she doesn’t tell u the truth , but if she comes out to tell u the whole truth then u can start a rehab amd deliverance session for her .
lesbian and gayism is real , and there is a contention because now this guys are ready to fight for ur wife and ur husband ,much more if ur partner as an history with having S.e.x with his fellow gender before meeting u , marriage is just a cover up some of them used to avoid suspicion
May God help this generation
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How can you call a woman the love of your life and you can’t do without her, what exactly is wrong with you man? you definitely don’t know women at all. Of cos she will lie it’s the first time, when women know that you don’t know female nature, they know they can manipulate you. Go read the book, the manipulated man by Esther Vilar, get if from pdfdrive.com.
Put yourself together bro, she is a lesbian, trust me she will lie that she won’t do it again, but you will be a fool to believe her bro. Women are manipulative and selfish. The choice is yours man, all I want men to know is female nature, cos lot of men are simps, effiminate, emasculated, they worship women, and you are one of such men.
I wish you well.
if u forgive her just like that without this steps or without a proper question being answer guess what ? it would happen again , but this time they don’t need to do it in ur house , they would get an hotel since they know they can’t be together and u see them .
when things happen like this and u are very lucky to see it , before u think of forgiving why don’t u seek solution until solution are granted forgiveness should not be a thing , she was caught in lesbianism and until u can’t guarantee she would do it again , why talk of forgiveness kwa ?
the first step to someone seeking for forgiveness is sincerity , I was expecting she just say the truth she has been caught already , maybe she is not even sorry she got caught she is only sorry because she is afraid u might leak her sullied, cladestine , perverted act to her family , maybe that’s just her fear
You are married to a lesbian as these is a better truth to reconcile with. The consolidate accounts isn’t adding up to the point that that was the first day and that it was Ivy that is the lesbian here. She need a deliverance from called man of God with anointing so as not to introduced your daughter into this mess in the future. But you have to forgive and show her more love Man . Women can keep a cleen sheet of their negative lifestyle more than anyone else. God bless you.