True Life Story: My Boyfriend Behavior Has Changed-Should I Expect Breakup?
Hello Lively Stones,
Remember my story? I took the advice you gave to me and compared the new guy and my ex and I decided to go back to my ex.
We sorted out everything and continued dating. I had to tell my mom it was him and ask her to respect my decision, which she did and offered help in her own little ways.
Why I’m here again is months after I wrote you, my ex got a job. Imagine my joy etc I was happy that everything will be fine but now there’s an issue. The job takes his time, he doesn’t call like he used to and when I complain he ask I understand and bear with him. Though he gives me money monthly but I don’t have our “us” time any longer.
When we make plan to see, something comes up and we won’t see. He calls me and the conversation is rushed. He says he loves me, I shouldn’t doubt it but his actions are saying otherwise. Makes me think he’s got a new girl.
Something happened recently that made me think over this relationship again. He told me he was travelling out of town only to find out from his sister days later that he didn’t go anywhere. He blamed it on his work, saying he was having a bad time.
I don’t know what to do again. I have asked him if he wants us to part ways but the answer I get is no but I’m tired emotionally. It’s his job, job job. It’s confusing to me because I don’t know if he wants me. I’m planning to sit him down and discuss what his plans are for us, by his answers I’ll know what to do.
What do you suggest? Please advise me.
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