My name is Dora not real name, I am a working-class lady, am 38yrs. Am a member of LivelyStone and will be waiting for you guys respond. Please hide my ID.
I have not been lucky in relationships and most of my relationship are distance relationship. Let me just go straight to the point. Am from Katsina not real location.
How I met Chima not real name, was when I graduated from secondary school I was working with a private organization, I was very honest with the work I was doing, so my boss sent me to learn computer in one of the best center in Katsina, there I met Chima, he was one of the best computer lecturer. He falls for me, we started dating, everything was going smoothly.
I got admission into the university of plateau state as a medical student. In my year two, Chima start getting angry with me unnecessarily, during my exam period Chima broke up with me on no cause.
I really find it hard to cope during that time but was encouraged by my roommate.
Chima got married to someone else, that was 2017, no issue(child) till date.
One day Chima chatted me up and was asking for forgiveness, if maybe I bad mouth him. I said I don’t have anything against him and I have forgiving him.
Chima was asking me out, which I refused. So one day Chima chatted me up and was telling me they are no more together with his wife, I now ask him what really happened, he said he caught her chatting with her ex and he was confessing his love to her and want to marry her. That they went to the hospital for checking up to see what the problem could be and who has the problem.
Unfortunately, the doctor said he was the one, that she started misbehaving to him, that he attempted suicide 3 times, but his friends intervene. He later found out that his wife connived with the doctor, to put the blame on him. His wife has left the house leaving him with nothing.
To cut the story short, Chima is begging me to see him this Sunday, that we really need to talk and pleading with me to give him a second chance.
Please what should I do, should I go or not? Are we really meant to be after all this mess? just recently I found someone which am in love with, trying to understand each other.
Please advise me.
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