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True Life Story: No Gree For Anybody But Single Men Are No Longer Available-Pt 2

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And he was not wrong, my boss turned out to be stellar performance. Ade is a calm regular guy but my boss made me experience s3x in ways I only imagined in fantasy. No wonder, all the good men are taken and are married men now. This happened twice before the vacation ended. Back at home and at work, I began to lust after my boss and he knew. He would catch me staring at him and smile. One day, he made everyone work late so no one would suspect but he gave us tasks that required us to come give him feedback every now and then.

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One I stepped in his office to give him my feedback, he bent me over and in less than 5 mins, did his thing as he whispered in my ears, I warned you, you cant stop thinking about me. Now, Ade senses something is going on with me and my boss and he is jealous but I told him I still love him so he is calm. This hide and seek has been going on since October last year. I am sleeping with two married men who are friends with each other.

Middle of December, I found out my period was late. I found out dreadfully that I am pregnant. I am not just pregnant, I am two months pregnant and I never knew. When I told my boss, he was shocked and blamed me for being so careless. He asked why I am not on contraceptive, I told him I was not because of Ade’s vasectomy, I never bothered about contraceptives for myself. My boss wants me to get an abortion but the pregnancy immediately.

I got angry with the way he spoke to me about the pregnancy, he made it look like I was the one begging him to f#ck me, that he is happily married and that I am worthless to him. So, in anger, I told him I will not get an abortion, that he should prepare for his wife to find out. The next day, I received a sack letter from my HR. Obviously, my boss is upset. I called Ade to tell him everything. Ade advised me to get the abortion and that he would speak to my boss to give me my job back.

A week later, I had the abortion. I got my job back. I just returned back to work this January and promised myself not to have anything to do with Ade or my boss anymore or any married man for that matter. I need a single man. I am done with married men. They did me dirty. Ade has been calling my phone but I refused to answer him. My boss on his own has been avoiding me. I feel bad about everything. But I am alone. I will be 35 years old this year, no single man is coming for me.

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Four days, I got a promotion at work. I was not expecting it, I think my boss was trying to apologize to me…. so I sent my boss a thank you text. He came to my office and smiled. I was right. He apologized for the way he behaved about the pregnancy and said he thinks he is in love with me and he wishes he never forced me to get an abortion but he does not want to ruin his marriage. He wants me to give him a second chance and he says anything I want, he will give it to me, even if I want to have a baby but he cannot leave his wife.

I am worried that I am also in love with my boss. But I remember how he treated me….and I am afraid of getting the same treatment. But he has been singing sweet nothings in my ears and I am afraid I am getting weaker. I am falling for him again. My boss has booked an Air B N B for this weekend. My brain is telling me not to go but my heart and body is already fantasizing the mind blowing s3x with my boss. I need help and advice to resist this man but here I am…single…in love with a married man….how will I no gree for him? When there are no single guys ready to marry?

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Maybe this time will be different? At least, he is saying he is in love with me and ready to do anything except leave his wife? What if that is my destiny? Maybe I am destined to have a partner and not a husband….I really want a child of my own. Menopause is knocking on the door. Will it be so wrong to be with this man who will love me but not marry me? Dont get me wrong, I get advances from men everyday but guess what, they are either married or in relationships.

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My boss, at least, he is loyal to his wife which by refusing to leave her….this kind of man, his wife cant have him all to her self….he is a god that knows he is….he is zeus…he can go several rounds and no one woman can stand that…..so, he is a good man but a good man can love more than one woman which is me….I don’t want to sound selfish but since the last seven years, all the men coming to me or already with other women first…yet they love me. So, what does that say? Maybe I am not destined to marry but be with a partner who will love me and have kids with me? Please advice me.

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A passionate people and godly relationship advocate!...Trained Psychologist and Human Resources Practioner. A seasoned Marriage and relationship counsellor. A mother, wife, sister, friend and daughter. J

7 COMMENTS

  1. If you are okay with been a mistress it is your choice. However don’t expect too much. There will be lot of lonely nights. if you decide to have a child for him be ready to be the mother and father. It’s your choice really.

  2. Please be patient. Your own husband is coming. Save yourself from distractions and irreparable womb damage arising from illicit sex abortions. Note that those married men you are dating won’t always have your time. They have their own families they are faithfully commited to and you may not be able to break the bond.
    Wait for your time. There’s time and season for everyone.

  3. Dear Poster,

    Well this is what our last webinar was all about

    Aaron Okoye said .. Like it or not…. As a single person…. You attract the kind of person around you

    So maybe you need to change your location

    You need a new community

    This boss and people coming for you… That’s not God’s plan for you

    You need to seek sober reflection…. Where did you miss it

    You need to find new site of friends and acquaintances

    You are among the wrong crowd…. If it means…. Quitying that Job… Do it

    Sometimes… Maybe your own expectations are the problems

    You want the man you want to have certain qualities and achievements

    Why not ask God to open your eyes…. To the humble and God fearing men around good places

    You see…. The question you are asking… Only you can answer it

    No one is destined to anything

    You can use your tongue to change any destiny that is not favourable

    If you want to be a second wife…. Do it with your full chest

    Let the man marry you proudly

    But note…. You will never be the centre of his life

    He will fall in love with the next hottest chick

    According to you… Ladies can’t resist him abi

    Sister…. You deserve better

    Change your mindset.

    God bless.

  4. Dear Poster,

    Please don’t get sucked in by these men! Your boss only wants you again because you are not dragging along a liability anymore. He doesn’t love you, remember he said you’re worthless to him?
    Please Don’t forget how you felt after the procedure. Because that is the reality of it all. You can never be the love of a married man’s life, and trust me that loneliness that you feel will multiply when you get further pulled in to the relationship.
    Besides,You know how people regard you by their reactions when the chips are down.
    Finally, please pray, “and believe” that you will find your own partner. And stop saying you’re not destined to get married, that there are no more single men… that’s a lie they have tried to sell to us, to make us compromise on our belief. Don’t give up sis, there is a single man out there for you.

  5. Dear Poster,

    Many times we hear, we don’t see the end of the stairs or road and that’s exactly what your next episode looks like.

    Your boss impregnated you, forced you to abort the baby and sacked you within a space of few weeks and suddenly claiming love.

    He knows your weakness and that’s what he is using on you.

    Your sense of feeling lonely, conclusion that no single man will love and marry you, your hunger for him and desire to be with him.

    I hope you don’t end up loosing your job and the man cos Ade is out of the league now.

    I will tell you that sin and wrong thoughts are always enticing and sweet with lots of convictions and glaring factors but you are inexcusable.

    If you want the truth, you are in for a long ride that will leave you lonelier, hurt and depressed than ever.

    Tell your boss , NO. Start planning for exit and build yourself to be valuable to get job faster. Occupy your mind with good activities and new friends. Have reasonable people and join quality groups to build new relationships.

    No single and serious man will come to you because the aura of the married men and union you are into will scare them away in the spirit.
    Theore married men you sleep with, the more married men come for.you. Mind you, at your age, it’s married men that fancy you matured to play along and not cause trouble. The younger men will only wish you will build with them or be submissive to them at your level. You need to be open to try relationship with you get and single men.

    How kolanut sounds isn’t how it tastes. If you take in for this man, what’s your assurance? Don’t bank on spoken words even signed documents but what you have as your own.
    If you are doing mistress work and plan to have a child ,then have it traditional sealed as a second wife and face consequences.

    Be warned!

  6. Ur Boss only wants to come back to you becos u have had the abortion,now he thinks that u are more smart n sensitive now,u wouldn’t want to let urself get pregnant again, that’s why he came back n pretending to be all sweet to u right now,be wise n let that man , except u are already justifying the money n the fantasy u are enjoying to continue with him,
    Just be careful though,
    My humble opinion o

  7. I can’t believe you would reconsider such a man.

    You could have lost your life in the process or destroyed your womb.

    He spoke to you roughly, he took your job from you next day.

    Can you forget all that so quickly?

    I’ll leave it at that.

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