True Life Story: Help: My Husband Suddenly Moved Out Of Our House
Hello Lively Stones,
Someone mentioned that I need to speak to a marriage therapist, I checked online to find that Lively Stones is the number one relationship blog in Nigeria. My husband and I really need, to speak to a counselor even though he has refused to agree to it but I don’t know what else to do. Right now, if you ask me what the issue is, I don;t even know what I did or went wrong.
I need your help. My name is Caroline, I am 33 years old woman, I got married to my baby daddy last year. Before our marriage, we were dating for almost three years before I got pregnant, he said he was not ready for marriage but we were cool. But on Valentine’s day last year, he surprised me with an engagement and we got married in April last year. Since we have been married, every thing has been fine until like four days ago.
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Four days ago, I noticed that my husband was unusually very quiet. I kept asking him if he was ok, he said he is. I asked him why he is so quiet, he said nothing. At some point, he sounded like my asking him was irritating him so I decided to give him his space for a while. Then two days ago, my husband called me and told me that he is no longer interested in our the marriage, that the marriage was a mistake and that I should know that he is no longer interested.
My mouth was just open, confused…I was like, what happened…did I do something wrong…he said…its not me, that he is the one. That he realized that he made a mistake by proposing to me, that he has not been happy for some time, that he tried to mask his feelings but he realized that being married to me will never make him happy. I begged him to tell me why he was not happy with me…he just kept mute. I started crying….he didn’t even flinch….he walked away to the visitors room and slept alone that night.
I cried myself to sleep. Before I woke up, he was gone. He left me a note, that I should start looking for an apartment, that he will pay for it and send me monthly upkeep for me and our baby. That he will be filing for a divorce as well. I called my parents and family…everybody has been asking me, what did I do to him….I have searched my heart, I cannot recall doing anything to him since we got married.
Yesterday, I had to report to his family. They too were very shocked. They told me to be calm, that they will call him to ask him what is going on. But I have never been able to rest since. I have been fasting and praying, I don’t know where this attack is coming from, who is trying to take my husband from me? Why will a man just all of a sudden decide to end a marriage that has been nothing but peaceful and happy.
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Is there a woman behind all these? Is he having an affair with someone? I have never had any reason to suspect him to be having an affair. He is a good man, a good husband and father. This matter is really confusing me, I need you people to pray for me and advise me on what to do. I never forced my husband to marry me…even when I got pregnant, he said he was not ready for marriage…I didn’t pressure him….now he married me on his own…why is he saying he wants a divorce now?
Everyone keeps asking me what did I do to him…I did nothing….literally…nothing. Since we got married, I have never been disrespectful or cheated. This is a great shock to everyone. Some are saying he is being manipulated: so who is this strange person manipulating him? how do I go about this matter? How do I stop this person from taking my husband away from me and destroying my happiness? I am loosing my mind….please help me.
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