True Life Story: I Never Knew My Wife’s Best Friend Was Envious Of Her
Hi Lively Stones,
My marriage is a mess right now…I don’t know what advice can fix it but let me share all the same. So my wife Ella and I were friends from Uni. Ella was one of the hottest girls on campus. She won miss Campus and Miss Engineering. She is also a second class upper graduate…hot in brains and beauty. During school years, we were just friends but after school, we got posted to same state to serve, our friendship grew and we started dating. I felt like the luckiest girl in the world.
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I proposed two years later and we got married. Life was great until Ella had a freak accident. That day, my world turned dark. I thought I had lost her but miraculously, she survived. She was in coma for a week. When she revived, she fractured some bones and went through several surgeries. Eventually she was discharged 2 months later and we were supposed to continue physiotherapy from home.
That accident affected Ella so much. For such a beautiful woman, she felt the accident disfigured her. She was depressed for weeks. I tried my best as a husband to cheer her up but nothing I said could cheer her up. Her family was really worried. That was when they brought in their family doctor, a physiotherapist; Greg. Greg is a young doctor, the son of their old family doctor…. but he is highly recommended in his field. He practically took over Ella’s recovery. He was always at our house or Ella was taken to see him.
As a result of my business, I could not always go with Ella to her appointments with Dr. Greg. But I noticed that after a while, Ella started regaining herself. She smiled more. I was happy. She always looked forward to the appointments with Dr. Greg. I thought this guy was great for helping my wife. Until Christine, one of Ella’s best friend started acting funny towards me. At first, Christine is very close to my wife and I…we hung out alot before the accident.
And after the accident, she was always around Ella for moral support. Christine is single. I thought he support to me was because of Ella…she started randomly asking me if I had eaten, if I was doing ok emotionally and mentally. Once I actually doing her I was not doing well. That was when Ella was at her darkest moments. Truthfully, I felt Christine was just being a friend. So when she started asking me about how Ella’s accident was affecting our s3x life, I did not even suspect anything.
In-fact, I confided in her that I had not thought about s3x in months cos of Ella’s accident and recovery that has taken a toll on me. Chrissy started offering to help me ease my s3xual stress by offering me oral s3x. She said she is just being there for us as friends. I told her that could never happen cos that is cheating. Then she asked me if I knew that Greg and Ella used to be lovers back in school? That Dr Greg was Ella’s first boyfriend despite the age gap of five years between them.
At first, I did not want to believe Chrissy but seeing Ella so happy with her progress with Greg, I allowed Chrissy get into my head, I started seeing that Ella and Greg were having an emotional affair. I was angry at first but I also wanted Ella to get well so I did not say anything. Instead, I leaned more to Chrissy and we ended up sleeping with each other. It felt good cos I told myself that my wife was enjoying Greg in the name of physiotherapy.
However, we got so lost in the affair that Chrissy got pregnant. That was the wake up call. I asked her to get an abortion but she refused. That was when I realized that Chrissy actually planned this whole thing…she said she heard people telling her that Ella said she was the only single friend she had,,and that she knows no man will ever marry Chrissy cos Chrissy is not pretty like her, Ella. Wow…I don’t know if Ella said that but that sounded so childish to me. But Chrissy said she wanted to prove to my wife Ella that she can have any man she wanted including me.
Now…I wonder if Chrissy went diabolic and planned this Ella’s accident. She is from a state where I know girls like her can go spiritual if need be….Chrissy was never really a good friend….I have tried to beg Chrissy and hide the pregnancy from Ella but Chrissy was out for trouble. Chrissy was envious of her friend Ella, I realized too late. Well, alot of women are envious of Ella…she is beautiful, rich and has everything in life. But I never though one of her best friends could do this to her. Chrissy threatened to tell Ella if I tried to force her to get an abortion.
In my fear of Ella finding out through Chrissy…I went and confessed to Ella. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. I cried like a baby. I thought Ella was going to leave me. But she cried too. She was crying silently…the next thing she said was…babe, am sorry too…I also messed up…I slept with Greg. You see, I knew she was flirting with Greg but I never knew she was going to f#ck him eventually. This time, I was mad and frustrated. I left her and went outside to scream at the top of my lungs.
My marriage is a mess….my wife has tried to talk to me for days after she revealed what she and Greg has been doing. But I have no desire to talk to her. I don’t want my marriage to be over…but I think it may be really over. That is why I have refused to talk to Ella. I don’t know if Ella is in love with Greg. She must be…because since her accident which is almost a year, me and my wife have not had s3x because I thought she was hurt and not ready but she managed to be f#cking her doctor who happened to be married and was her first love.
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At this point, what do we do? How do we face each other…what do we say to each other? As for Chrissy….she is bent on having that baby…Ella would never accept that. And for me and Ella…how do we forge this marriage forward…or is it truly over? I do not want to accept that. I love my wife…I want to fight for my marriage but how do I do that with all that has happened?
You see why I don’t see how any advise can help us? But I am desperate…if anyone has been in a situation like mine, please reach out and help. I will be in the comments.
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The player has been played 1-1,keep scoring dear poster, you’re such a a nice defender,striker, keeper and mid fielder .
Anyways,the deed has been done,you went too far,what happened to condom? Was it scarce in your area? You wanted to enjoy flesh to flesh but you don’t like the outcome which is pregnancy abi,jisike.
Both of you have committed both adultery and fornication,you just have to forgive each other and move on. If Christine or whatever she’s called is insisting on keeping the pregnancy,it is her cross to bear. Make it clear that you will only be responsible for your child and not her well-being.
Next time,be smarter and be wiser. No let anybody run you street or take advantage of you or use you play bet.
Peace
I think both parents need to settle this
He should stop shouting, and fix his home. He has been away on business trips, leaving his vulnerable wife to deal with her issue all alone and to top it all he cheated on her with her friend.
Though she cheated but the husband should have done better. I mean you are the man of the house, you should watch and pray for your wife so she would not fall into temptation.
Moving forward, he should draw his wife close so they both can draw closer to God.
As for the friend, if she wants to keep the pregnancy, let her be, but from henceforth, whatever the baby needs must come through your wife or any member of the family, and if she doesn’t accept it that way, then OYO is her case.
Enough said…
Dear poster this is definitely going to be a tough one
Because you were insensitive to know Chrissy was on a mission to intrude into your family by all means
because she’s accepted to go after her friends husband
when couples have issues in marriage they communicate and resolve it rather than neglecting or be ignorant to each other
Both of you created that space in between for intruders to walk-in Now it’s left for you both to sit and decide if you want to go your separate ways or work on the relationship and fix the problems
Meanwhile it’s your choice I would rather say both of you should focus on your home and let the intruders be especially Chrissy let her be stop convincing her on what to do.
No doubt None of you is a saint on the issue rather than divorcing, complaining or feeling hurt why not sit and have a heart to heart talk remember the world doesn’t revolve around you alone as the husband find out what’s her decision on the Matter as well (your wife)
Give time to love and reconnect who knows this might be a spark to a better beginning to close all loop holes and be more dedicated to God
Relationship has it ups and downs It’s important to approach the situation with empathy and a commitment to finding solutions that are best for everyone involved wish you all the best.
The deed has been done, I will advice you both go your separate ways since there’s no kids involved, you both hurt each other deeply…that’s something that’s very hard to leave the mind, peace.