True Life Story: What Am I Going To Tell My Husband About My Best Friend-Pt 1
Dear Lively Stones,
Kindly hide my identity. After many years of arguing that a woman can have a male best friend without anything going on, I have finally discovered that was a lie. This is my story. Frank and I became best friends after I went for a job interview in 2013. Frank was one of the Directors in the company. A young director who was just 29 years old. I was fascinated at that but Frank is a genius. We hit it off right from when I resumed working in that company as their Legal Manager.
I also learned so much from Frank while working in that company. I was a young wife with a baby boy, Frank was single. I took his friendship even to my husband and they became friends too. We travelled together on many official assignments. We attended each others family events. Until Frank left the company to another where he became CEO. But still were friends. Eventually, Frank got married to a lady he met in his new company, we were all there for the wedding.
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Whenever I had a challenge in life or at work or in marriage, Frank was always my go to buddy and confidant. There was a time, I was having marriage challenges, my husband cheated twice, Frank was the one I was talking to, he was counselling me and my husband. Then, Frank’s wife started acting funny…they had their own challenges but he never told me about it. Eventually, they separated last year. Frank has been living alone but we have been praying his marriage gets restored.
So few months ago, Frank called me that his company was looking for a new company secretary and he wanted me to recommend someone. I was surprised he was asking me to recommend someone cos I was like, what about me? Frank smiled and said, Eno, I cant work close to you again like before. I asked why…he said….cos I think I am in love with you. I laughed and said yes na…me too I love you…you are my best friend. He said, Eno I am serious. You are part of the reason my wife left me.
I was shocked when Frank explained that he was making love with his wife one day and he mentioned my name. That the wife said she always suspected Frank had feelings for his so called best friend but she did not bother cos she knew I was married. When Frank made this confession, a light bulb went off my head. I started imagining what life could have been if Frank was the one I married. I swear, I started making so much comparison. Like…Frank is so much nicer and sweeter than my husband…he even understands me better.
My husband is an average Joe….not romantic, he does not pay attention to me but Frank even knows when I am feeling moody cos I am on my period. I became scared when I realised I may also have feelings for Frank. But I put that thought behind my back quickly. I thought I would never think about it again until two weeks ago. My husband and I got into a fight last month. And typical him, he will never apologize. This time, I was determined that he must apologize before I let him have s3x with me.
Like play, one whole month past. This man refused to apologise and when he touched me for s3x, I refused. See how Kongi almost killed me. I masturbated until I almost lost my mind. I wanted real s3x badly. That was when the evil thought came to me. I first started daydreaming of Frank f$cking me to the extent that I would call him…just to hear his voice while I masturbated. Frank heard me breathing hard on the phone while he was talking to me and asked me why I was breathing hard…I said nothing. This happened twice.
The next day, I told Frank I needed to see him, that it was a matter of life and death. And I wanted it to be a secret meeting. Frank was worried so he said, come to my place. I went over to his place at Ikoyi…he was worried sick on his face thinking I had a life problem for him to solve. But I got up and told him Frank, I need you to f$ck me before I run mad. I told him how I have been calling him to masturbate at his voice. Frank looked at me and was still trying to make sense of it but I was not ready for any second thoughts..so I rushed and kissed him.
Frank was saying…Eno stop…you will regret this….I told him I don’t care…I just want to be f$cked hard….after a few minutes of saying no…Frank picked me up and gave me the f$ck of my life. This was exactly how I imagined it. He was great….he made me come twice….he licked plate…he did everything a woman dreams of. I was practically incapacitated by the time we were done making love. We both wanted this …we talked and talked and wished we had found each other before we married other people. Frank was like….we cant continue cos he cannot face my husband who sees him as a friend.
That was two weeks ago. Since then, Frank blocked me. He said he cant be my friend anymore cos anytime he talks to me or sees me, he wants to make love to me. And that will be bad for his wife to ever reconcile with him and it may also break up my marriage. I swear to God, I miss Frank so much. I have thought about leaving my husband to be with Frank but Frank is a good man….he does not want to break up our families simply because we are in love with each other. And that made me feel so guilty that I had to make love to my husband even without him apologizing. I am still feeling every day since the last two weeks.
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Yesterday, my husband said he has been thinking of how to help Frank and his wife get back together. My husband is suggesting that we should all go for a couples vacation with Frank and his wife this Christmas….
What the f$ck am I going to say to my husband?
Anonymous
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It sounds like you’re in a situation that will soon get complicated if you don’t handle your with your husband and opposite sex relationship with honesty and respect. It’s important to carefully assess your feelings and consider the impact on your marriage. One of the reasons why some married women ask questions like- I don’t know if I love him anymore is because feelings can change over time. You can love someone today, and the next time, you doubt your feelings.
If you are not sure if you still love your husband, it might be due to some reasons. Your feelings for your husband can change, but you must be careful to address those feelings then decide if they were worth it or not.
It is normal for feelings to have their ebb and flow over a period of time but it is also essential to value relationships and work on them continuously to keep the relationship strong and healthy not sleeping around or catching feelings here and there responsibility begins from there wish you the best.