True Life Story: How I Hooked Up With Someone’s Side Chick At A Wedding
Hi Lively Stones,
Sorry, I don’t know how to write long stories so I will go straight to the point. Funny thing happened two months ago. I was at a wedding of one of our alunmi. I sat with a couple of other ex students from our uni at a table. I noticed one of the ladies there was somehow acting weird during the wedding. She was dressed seductively. Her breasts was nearly spilling out. All eyes were on her…guys mostly…other ladies were either envious or disgusted she dressed that way.
When it was time to dance or spray the bride…she put up quite a display. I tried to make chit chat with her but I was more than shocked when at the end of the wedding, she asked if I wanted to leave with her for a good time. I was like,…wow…this girl is bold…she said she came to the wedding to show pepper someone and if I followed her to f#ck…she would have finished the person. I was like…damn….this girl is a trouble maker and I like a little excitement so I agreed.
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We went to her place and things occurred that evening. I wanted to leave but she said would I be willing to be friends with benefits with her…that she wants to continue to pepper that mystery person. That if the person sees she has a man, the person will be devastated. I had to ask her who the mystery person was and she said it was the groom at the wedding. She said she was literally seeing the guy two days to his wedding. They have been dating secretly for a year and he just broke up with her two days ago, only for his wedding to happen two days after. She said that she wants to make him feel jealous.
I could not believe my ears…like the groom was f#cking her and that is why she dressed to kill at the wedding. I was like….why not leave the guy alone and focus on her own life. She started crying and said she cant move on without a guy cos she will be missing the groom too much. So, we agreed to be friends with benefits. Omo, this girl is crazy….she started posting pictures of us on social media…even intimate bedroom pictures but she would leave my face out. And as she predicted….the married man almost ran mad.
The man who just got married, started coming after her and begging her. Right now, the man wants to annul his barely two months old marriage. I have seen chats from the man. Begging this babe everyday. This babe and I are having fun and I ,must say, I have grown to have some feelings for her. With the situation she has with this married dude, I dont know how she will react if I tell her I have feelings for her. I fear she may still be in love with that guy. But I could try ….cos this girl is a bad girl with a good heart.
I don’t want a saint for a life partner…I like her kind of person but I really don’t know where her heart is. She is really a soft hearted person trying to play hard. She is fun, smart and sexy. She makes her own money, she is not a gold digger. She can cook and take care of a man. I see she wants a man that can wife her. I may be that man if things go well. She has been lied to so many times by several dudes…shes a bit scared but I think if I can get that married man away from her….I may stand a chance.
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I told her a few days ago that I love her….she replied that she loves me too….I asked her if she is still in love with that dude…she said she’s not sure but she needs time. So, my question is…will she be good for me…any need for me to get my hopes up or should I just maintain the friends with benefit status…but thing is…I am getting really hot with the guy trying to break up his marriage for her…I feel like I need to stop that from happening so this babe can concentrate on me. Abi I for set the guy up…but he seems ready to even end his marriage…abi he is bluffing…
I know there are smart and wise advice I can get here on this platform…please help a brother ….I don catch feelings o. Kindly advise me make I no mess up.
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Dear poster that is in love, kindly thread with caution. You have just met this babe,you need to calm down and observe her kind of person first.
If you love her somuch,sit her down and talk to her about your love for her,if she agrees genuinely,fine,if she doesn’t, please face front and mind your business.
Just thread with caution and be wise
The way some men think baffles me, are you a baby that you are thinking like one. You even want to set up another man cos of a woman.
You are so weak to be called a man. Read your story again and you will see you are not fit to be called a man.
Dear Poster,
Life happens but a person whose mind is on a man and ready to pepper him may be hurt or obsessed.
I understand she is trying to get even with him but she needs time to heal if she wants to move on.
For you, take time to talk to this lady about your feelings.
Be firm to ask if she loves and wants a relationship with you yet.
Play neutral no matter what you feel for her.
Do not force the man to back off, no set up, no confrontation.
Concentrate on being yourself around her. Be nice and show your true concern, genuine interest and love for her.
Also, zero your mind on her taking you serious. You can’t force a horse to drink from the stream.
I will advice you to stop the friends with benefits. If you are a serious person and wants her for good, end the friends with benefits.
Be close as a friend and be good from a distance. You need her to come to the realisation that you are good and fit for her.
If she doesn’t see you as a right fit, she will only see you even tomorrow as just a temporary and make-up person in her life.
For now, take a step back while you show her your true feelings.
Finally, how much do you know this lady as a person? Take more time to know her, her family, circle of friends and her personality.
Ask the right questions if she agrees to being your friend.
U would have feeling ,how won’t u have feeling u are having sex with her lad
Sex is intimacy and it’s like a glue which binds two people not only bodily ,by mentally and emotionally
Infact u don’t really know u love someone as much as u think till u have sex with that person ,and let me make it clear
And if having sex with a person doesn’t still make u love them ,then nothing can make u love them as a partner
Sex is just the action that proves the climax of compatibility
And let me tell u if a married man goes out and starts having sex with another woman ,he reduces his love for his wife a bit and if he does so again with the other woman ,there is a greater tendency his love for his partner ( true wife ) begins to diminish especially if the new woman is good in sex
And yes ,the lady was using u to get her ex man back ,Ur mistake is u got carried away with the moment of event
It was crystal clear why the relationship was initiated ,it was because she was trying make her ex jealous and u are the best tool she could use
And let me make u understand ,when a woman is still trying to make her ex jealous ,it is because she still have a great flare for her ex ,in other words she still have a great things and passion for him
And u getting too engrossed in Ur sexcapes that u missed the initial agreement for the relationship was bad for Ur man
Yes u would love her ,why ??
She gives u sex ,she gives u the boyfriend /husband privileged without any form of responsibility
At least something u don’t earn to get u just got it freely , definitely u would love that person
Now ,if u love her like u claim u have to be crystal clear she loves u as much as u love her ,if not u are just in for disappointment
Why ??
Because as far as I know her jealous and desire for attention from her ex ,makes her still in love with her ex than u
She told u she doesn’t know
How won’t she know ??
Love is certain ,it is precise and very understanding
If u love a person u know ,if u don’t u know
The only reason she can’t give u a straight answer is because she still want u to hang around while probably the ex would come back
What do u even think as man ??
Her ex was with her for 1 year ,with all their sexcapes ,the things they did and share together ,the emotions they share and u feel Ur how many months of relationship with her is commensurate to balance that ♂️
Until a woman is ready to let go of her past (her ex ) she is not ready to move on
She loves her ex ,her jealousy and the attention she gives him tells a lot ,she chat him still ,if she was in love with u ,she would have blocked him
A lady that offers u her body easily ,is a red flag
Take it or leave it
She can as well give another man so easily the way she gave u ,so taking her as a wife material is to Ur detriment
Imagine wifing her ,only for her to still chat her ex
U are on Ur own
U are only in the picture because the ex was married and ur presence can dissipate when he comes back
It is as simple as ABC