True Life Story: I Am Only Human So Why Can’t I Be In Love With My Boss?
Hi Lively Stones,
My name is Jeff (not real name). I am in love with my boss. Crazy right? Well, I did not plan to fall in love with a woman in her forties….but things happened. I decided to write my story cos I read the story of the woman sleeping with her driver. That story made me chuckle…because its similar to mine in some ways but I am not blackmailing my boss. Th way I see it…Love is love….even Drivers can fall in love. You cant have S** with someone and not feel something.
So if you haven’t guessed yet, yes, I am a driver. I am not ashamed to say that I am a graduate of botany but after many years of looking for a job without luck, and then doing odd jobs like factory worker, I got a gig from a friend who said their company was looking for corporate drivers and the fee is 250k. That amount is what some tellers in the bank earn, I had to prepare for the job. It was a rigorous process and I came successful in the end.
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I was attached to this Director in the oil and gas company where I now work. Its a well paid job with benefits….I have looked at my prospects, and I could end up being a fleet manager here one day. So, this director that I am attached to, is a beautiful woman in her forties but she does not look like it. She is a half Nigerian, half South African woman. She is single…Very smart and people fear and respect her in the company. I was her Driver for almost five months, she was always professional with me but I admired her alot.
Sometimes, we chatted about personal stuff while Driving her…she was impressed that I was a graduate but doing driving and having a goal of reaching the peak of my career. Then one day, we were gisting and I made a bold move to ask her why she is not married…she laughed and said she no longer believes in marriage…cos when she was younger, all the relationships she had did not work out…and now, she knows no guy wants her since shes almost 45….so shes focused on her career.
When I asked her how she deals with loneliness and S**ual urge, she laughed and said that is what her dildo and vibrator is doing for her….I laughed and told her I wish I had a girlfriend like her…she smiled and asked if I was flirting with her….I said maybe…she was quiet for the rest of the ride….when I dropped her that day…she asked if I wanted to come inside….I said ok….she invited me over and I went to her apartment.
One thing led to another…we had S**. I had a crush before…but now I am in love….she was very worried after….that I was an employee…and she was way older than me…she said it was inappropriate and said she would request for me to be transferred. I begged her not to transfer me….and I promised her it would never repeat itself again. She agreed….but the S**ual tension between us is so much…she started avoiding talking to me…it became strictly business …
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I could not take it anymore so I sent her a message that I love her ….she never replied but next morning …she told me that she is giving me last warning….that if I try to send any romantic message to her ….she would have me fired. That pissed me off….so I decided to leave her alone. But I have not stopped thinking about her. I catch her watching me sometimes….I know she wants me too….but I am afraid of making any further move. She is scared of what people will think….that someone her age is with someone much younger….I am 29…..and she is a Director….our worlds are different.
To be honest…I have not given up hope….but I really do not know how it will work between both of us….so when I read this Driver story, I almost felt tempted to seduce my boss…but I do not know how she will react….please help me with some advice…how do I get such a high class lady to ever agree to give me a chance. I thought of quitting this job but that is impossible right now….I just got this job after suffering for almost seven years after graduating from school. I need this job….
So what do I do about my feelings for my boss…surely we cant both ignore that we have a connection….I know we are both dying to be with each other but the fear of the unknown….maybe she is afraid that I might want to take advantage of her…or is she just afraid of what the management would think about a director dating a driver? This is real life… I believe love can be with anyone no matter their social status….or am I living in fantasy.
I am just trying to be patient…I am hoping one day…she will crack…and give me another green light….abi If you were in my shoes, what would you do about the situation…?
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I will be honest with you.
You are an irresponsible man, why did I say so? You kept justifying fornication, but fornication is wrong. Please, read proverbs 5 to 7 and see what it says about S.e.xual immorality.
Secondly, you are a simp, a mangina, an effeminate man, a pussified man, a beta make, a weak man, a women worshiper. Why did I say so? You asked a lady how she manages her S.e.xual urges, bro, it is none of your business, you men that flirt with women and make senseless jokes with women baffle me, must you be silly to such point?
Go to work and do your do your job, but men like you won’t learn and listen, is it until a woman accuses you of S.e.xual misconduct? even after the S.e.x, you were still disturbing her, you only successfully destroyed your soul by having S.e.x with a woman that is not your wife, what if she is a witch or from the marine world.
Some of you men just act so irresponsibly when you see women, and will find every excuse to justify it. I really pity you bro, I really do.
Run from S.e.xual immorality with every ounce of strength in you. Trust me, that lady wants you again, she is only checking if you really want her, but you know its LUST that is driving you and you will be a fool to go back to have S.e.x with her even after all I have told you.
Please, read proverbs 5 to 7 and LEARN and apply the lessons with your life.
I wish you well bro.
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Dear poster,please mind your work,you went to that company to work not to chase a high class madam.
That job is the only means of income and livelihood you have for now.
Give her sometime,just behave as though you’re serious with work,she can still come around,who knows.
Make sure it’s genuine love you feel for her and not lust or fantasy. Bros have you thought of the age difference sha,e get why I dey ask you oooooo.
Udo!
Thank God I am not in your shoes,let assume I am ,I will focus on my job and forget totally about anything that transpired between us.Please forget about her.
I can see that the 7 years of joblessness didn’t teach you a lesson. You want to throw away a well paid job (250k as a driver) that God mercifully gave you for a foolish infatuation you have for a lady?
How ungrateful can you be to your maker?
You better snap out of that dream of doom that you are having that will only open your eyes to loosing your job and landing into the labor market and face your job!
Focus my brother, feelings is passing, after a while you will be fine. If possible request for transfer. If she likes you, she will come for you.
Even if she comes back can you cope, the class, maturity, age difference, finance etc. ? Think it through. Your best is to stay focused on your job.
Focus on your job. If you can, ask for a transfer. Think of what you went through before this opportunity came through. If you met another lady beautiful, successful, younger, singer you can still fall in love and marry.
She has thought it through and believes this is not the best path for you both. You are blessed she is not using you just to satisfy her desires then throwing you off. Don’t take the threats lightly or try to ruin her life either.
Respect boundaries and focus. Better still get transferred if you can’t focus.
What do you really want from her? Do you want to marry her? Will your Parents approve? Will you love her when she is 60 and you are 44 and you have so much more money and more ladies at your disposal to choose from?
You went there to work. If you were closer to her age maybe she will consider you.