True Life Story: My Baby Daddy Promised Marriage But Nothing Is Happening
Hello Lively Stones,
I want to share my story because I need advise on what to do with my baby daddy. It’s a long story though but I will try my best to shorten it . I met Paul(not real name) April 2020 , he was talking marriage with me, he told me he had a wife and wanted me for a second wife I agreed we started courting he sign me to learn two different types of trade which I learned all in the period of a year .
I come from a polygamous family and when my father died we came together to sell his only house and share the money , by that time everybody had to find their way so me and my bf put head together to get a spacious apartment since we re getting married Afterall he has taken me to meet his first wife and all was set so I got pregnant while leaning the second trade and we both agreed to keep it .
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Paul had issues in his business so I lend him the sum of 300k to solve the issues, he spent the money anyhow and could not give account. So someone in his office told me that am the sixth person having a child for him I could not believe my ears so I confronted him and he admitted it I was shocked but it’s too late because I was already 3 months gone already so I requested for the money I lend him in so doing I nag , fight him and threaten him .
Paul paid 230k and I had to forget the remaining 170k cos the baby had come by that time. When I had my child he did not come home for seven months but was sending money even though his workplace is just 15 minutes drive to the house and the first wife house is a hour. He will rather go there cos she too had a baby by that time I had mine also
He neglect me and my child for that seven months to be with the other woman.
I complained bitterly to everyone I know , his family and they were not saying anything tangible even though he is already preparing for my marriage rites .it’s a year now and I can count how many times he slept in this house, he doesn’t care so I told him to get me an apartment let me move on with my life since this is not marriage I forgot to add he brought his gf to stay with me in the house for 3 months.
Right now he has totally abandoned me in this house and not coming at all , so I threatened him by dropping my child for him in his office and he takes my child to the other woman it took him 3 days to return the child to me and calling off the relationship that he is not interested.
Now am pained, hurt and bitter and full with resentment am not expecting much from him since I know am the sixth person having a child for him but y lead me on wen u know u will drop me like this . Now am a single mom of one and he is somewhere having happy family, he post pictures of the other woman and her kids and that only makes me go crazy . When we went to a prophet he said he is under jazz by the other woman how true is that. though he is sending upkeep for my child regularly but not for me cos we re no longer together
Am just looking for how to revenge on him . After making me after 1 then he goes living happily ever after .
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Even my child did not know him because he was never there for him but the other woman kids know him very well . I find it hard to forgive him and move on , this not the type of family I planned for my child, a single parenthood no fatherly love and care . I pity myself most times for falling victim of this kind of person.
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