True Life Story: My Friend Is Been S3xually Harassed By His Boss

True Life Story: My Friend Is Been S3xually Harassed By His Boss

Hi Lively Stones,

Please this is for my friend. He is married with a son. His wife is heavily pregnant with their second child. Two weeks ago, he called me up and said he needed my advice. He is about to be fired from a job that he just got about four months ago because he has refused his boss s3xual advances towards him. My friend also wants to know if oral s3x is considered cheating in a case where one has no choice?

Well, this so called boss was formerly his colleague in a company where they both worked but she got a new job as a senior manager in another very big company and then she invited my friend to leave that former company to join her, to assist her cos the lady does not really know the job, she has been using this my friend to do the job while my friend reports to her. This woman is married but her so called husband is in South Africa, one wonders if its a true marriage.

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Indeed, my friend did not mind that he was reporting to his former company because the pay in this new company was almost 200% more money and benefits than his first company. And being former colleagues meant they were became close friends in this new company. Because of my friend, this woman was just receiving high praise in the company and was promoted in less than 3 months of employment. She was very grateful to my friend too for backing her in this new place.

The work was tough and so they spent alot of times working late hours together in the office. One day, after working on a very big assignment that was going to fetch the company such a big contract, my friend’s boss was so tensed that she suggested they go out for drinks after work. So, they went out and had drinks. They had one too many drinks and later, when they got to the car, the woman started making advances at my friend. My friend too was tipsy so he actually got into the kissing and fondling.

According to my friend, there was alot of heavy kissing, oral s3x …that means, he fingered her and she sucked his d*ck but when it got to penetration, my friend said he declined. That the lady was begging and begging…he had to perform more orals on her so she would cum before she agreed to let him go. To my friend, he said that was a bad night for him. He felt so much regret that he told himself that will never happen again.

So, the next day, he went to the boss and told her that he does not want that kind of thing to happen again. And she said she was fine with it. But since that time, he noticed that her attitude towards him changed. Now, she does not tell him about important information anymore in the company…he gets to hear it from other staff. That the woman did his appraisal a few weeks ago and stated in his appraisal that the guy was under performing and that his employment  should not be confirmed by the end of the month of October when he is due for confirmation of employment.

My friend has gone to the madam severally and asked why she wants him to be fired after his probation ended…and she replied that his work has significantly gone bad and she cannot work with him anymore. My friend tried to protest by telling her she was wrong for assessing him like that…she showed him a report that the HR actually put together saying  his salary is too much for his position cos he does not have masters and other certifications that people in that grade have.

The truth is, my friend is not really qualified for that job, its because of the woman he got that role. So, he cant complain to anyone else cos they will agree with his boss that he does not deserve the job. Besides, my friend said he heard a rumor that some people protested his employment and said its because he is dating the boss that he got the job. So he is afraid no one will believe him if he tries to report to HR. He also does not have any real evidence to back himself. Its his word against hers.

My friend has been begging this woman but she refused to listen. He then asked her if its because of what happened between them and she said no…that they both had a consensual affair…so my friend cornered her and tried to kiss her the other day in the office…The woman then tried to resist him and ask him what was that for: my friend smartly said he wanted to apologize for ‘hurting’ her feelings. She said ok…apology accepted. The lady later asked him to meet her for dinner…my friend knew she wanted to have something again and he told her that he can come for dinner but nothing will happen between both of them. She said ok.

When he met her up for the dinner…she asked him to take out his phone to make sure he was not recording her. Then she told him point blank. Its either she lets him have s3x with him or he will be fired at the end of the month. My friend said he got up and left because he said he cannot cheat on his pregnant wife and since that day, its been one query or the other he has been receiving from this woman. And to make things worse, he too has been making alot of mistakes at work cos of the pressure.

My friend is scared of loosing this job cos his wife is pregnant and they have been looking to get a new apartment but if he looses his job, he wont be able to get a new apartment. Plus he used this new job to be paying for a new car. If he looses his job, the bank will take the car from him. My friend went back to the woman and agreed with her that he will do all she wants but no penetrative s3x. The woman said she will think about it.

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What my friend means is, he is ready to have oral s3x with her…but no penetration so he wont feel like he is cheating on the wife. The woman has agreed and said the rule is that, there must be no phones or camera cos she wants to cover her tracks. My friend is scared and feeling guilty. Scared because he feels even though the woman agreed to only oral s3x…he is feeling things may get out of hand and lead to real s3x. My friend also feels guilty because he loves his wife.

My friend is asking for your advice…should he feel guilty if the s3x will not involve penetration? Should he feel scared that things may get out of hand? What can he do to get this woman off his back without him losing his job. This woman is very smart. Anytime she wants to talk about s3x with my friend, she makes sure his phone is not on him. She said they are both adults trying to help each other. Cos her husband is not around while my friend’s wife is pregnant ….well, unfortunately, my friend confided in her when things were still ok, that he has not been having regular s3x since the wife got pregnant, so the woman knows he is s3x starved.

Please advice my friend.

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